First Orgasm Question Help

Hi, I'm 23 and have only had two boyfriends. One was for about 3 months and we didn't do anything. My current boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months. We are both still virgins but do everything but intercourse. Long story short, with everything that he does to me which includes fingering, oral sex and using a vibrator on my clitoris I have still never had an orgasm. As I said, I've only been in a relationship with one other guy so I have no experience and he has never been in a relationship before me at all and therefore also has no experience. I'm not sure what I can do about this.


I’ve tried getting myself off but I haven’t been successful in that case either. I think it’s because I can't stay still long enough. Especially when he uses the vibrator, it is so intense I can't stay in one position long enough for him to use it on my clit enough for one to happen. It starts to feel really good with the vibrator but then I move a lot and can’t handle it anymore. I know that if I can just stay still long enough that intensity will lead to an orgasm. I was hoping that if I could do it to myself then I would be able to help him do it to me.

He does research online things that he can do to me and he has changed his routine over the last couple of months but as I said nothing seems to be doing anything. I give him both hand jobs and blow jobs and he is able to come from both of those every time. I'm the one left unsatisfied every time and I don't know what to do. I feel bad because he is working hard but at the same time he is also not getting any results. Don't get me wrong, what he does feels great and he can definitely tell that from my response but it just it going far enough and it's killing me.

Is there anyone who can help me out? I really want this to happen for a number of reasons and I'm all out of ideas. Thanks in advance for the help.

 

i'm feeling some severe deja vu here..

 

I wasn't sure if I was on the proper thread so when I found this one I thought I should post here and see if I can get more help.

 

Talk to your boyfriend. Tell him what's going on.

 

Yes, you will need to talk to your boyfriend.. Walk him through the entire process, what you like, what you don't like... Can't be afraid to tell him what you want... Otherwise you might never get off....