Our relationship is great and the sex is great. We do lots of kinky things. I have been trying to talk her but she states they are just friends. (yeah right) We are going to talk about this soon. I really dont care if she has someone on the side but she needs to tell me about it. I will post the text sequence here soon.
well she has finally admitted it and told me. We are going to have another conversation on Sunday since I had to travel this week for work. She said it was just one time but we shall see.
Does it really make a difference how many times it was! You let this go and it will happen again. You deserve better then this dude. She on the other hand deserves nothing.
Yeah you SHOULD care if she has someone on the side. It means she doesnt give two shits about you. Im a little confused as to why you decided to come here first? Im not married but i have a gf ive been with for a while now and if i found out she was cheating i'd give her a good smack and kick her out the door. Now that I think about it more, i feel that this "i dont care" attitude is whats giving her the courage to cheat and say "it was just one time" like it doesnt really matter. You need to put your foot down and show her who the man is.