Sexual women ending up with conservale males

How many of you women that are highly sexual and kinky end up with males that aren't as sexual as you?

For example, let's say you're a woman that loves facials or swallowing. You find out that your serious boyfriend doesn't even like it when women swallow.

Or, let's say you that crave sex frequently-but your partner start to say that you're just using him for sex.

Or, let's say you like porn. Your male partner doesn't like porn and feels hurt that you're preferring porn over him.


I wonder how common this is. Some guys may say that a highly sexual woman is every man's dream, but I keep hearing stories of how sexual women end up with partners that are more conservative than them. The above examples I gave are my real life experiences.

 

First of all, most women (at least the many that I've had personal experience with) don't like having cum spewed all over their face and/or swallowing. So if you come across a girl that truly gets off on doing both, then you've scored big.

And I'm willing to bet that most guys aren't as sexually wild as you would think. I've done things that most regular guys would never do, despite possibly even fantasizing about it. So it's not at all surprising that many women would end up with guys that are less sexually kinky than they are.

 

I've had other people tell me I'm naive and inexperienced for not agreeing with the idea that "all men are sex-crazed pigs." I refuse to believe it.

When I was 21 and dating someone that I wasn't that into, I also didn't like to swallow him or have him cum on my face. I think being attracted to your partner makes a HUGE difference in how sexually open you may be.

 

I think a lot of men are intimidated by a highly sexual female. Or they assume you are a "slut" if you are really into sex.

 

It's confusing, because men also complain about not getting enough sex. I have been in relationships where my sex drive decreased, but I think it was bc my partner and I didn't like the same things. If we both liked the same sexual acts, perhaps my drive would have been kept high. Never underestimate sexual compatibility. Most people look at me and assume I'm a sweet and timid girl. They would never guess that I like the things that I like.

 

Sometimes the ones who look sweet and timid are the most wild in bed

 

Sexual women often end up with men who can best meet their fiscal, not their physical, needs....

 

The best I've had isn't what he did, but how he did it. Just plain 'ol missionary was intense.

 

So then the question becomes, just what did he do then? And what can other guys learn from his performance?

 

Maybe his angle and his curve and his size fit just right. Who knows?

One thing though was he was strong, so he could hold/move me how he wanted. He let me know what felt good. He loved that I participated, and how I moved myself into ways that felt good. Our styles went together really well.

 

Yes not all men and women's sex drives are the same! I guess the key is finding someone who does have a sex drive equal to you. Not always an easy thing. I have found my equal, but part of what makes our sex life so great is the fact that we are equals in everyway. We think the same way and we have the same beliefs. We have a special bond mentally as well as physically. No bullshit and no games with us. Never a dull or fake moment.

 

Crikey, no chance, i'll do absolutely anything, but dont do kids and animals

 

I think its very common, a lot of people are too shy to say what they want or to scared to explore their own interests. I've had gf's that have been horrified because i've spun them round and gave it them doggy style. I've had a lot of gf's who said they've never orgasmed with a man, but I found them to be very easy to satisfy with giving them oral sex alone before having full sex and I wonder what their previous partners were doing?
If you can find someone thats into the same stuff as you then you've hit the jackpot, if you can find someone thats willing to do the stuff you like every now and again when they are in the mood, then you're lucky. If only there was some sex database that you could tick the stuff you don't mind doing or want doing and everyone can have their perfect partner.

 

It's important to know and respect what turns each other off too. While I consider myself a sexual person, here's what can kill it: 1) losing my freedom, such as having my partner being controlling. 2) being told hurtful things or being called names. 3) being smothered. 4) unresolved conflict where I'm not able to talk about how I feel.

 

Ya all those things would kill it! They are also all things that are not part of a healthy relationship. Why so many people tolerate shit like that is beyond me.

 

It's amazing how the person doing these behaviors then wonders why the other partner isn't interested or is having sexual problems. You can't expect a woman or a man to be aroused by being name-called, controlled or hit.

 

It used to drive me insane how my husband would rarely ever want sex. I always thought I was the one girl that wanted sex 24/7 who ended up with the one man who didn't. I'm just glad he eventually came around to my side of the table after I stopped working and started staying at home and was horny more often.