Post your recent attempted pickup stories here! For all those dudes/dudettes into talking to strangers. So: I had fun today but I got rejected a lot. Picture this: I was going into my car in the parking lot of valencia college and this girl in heels is walking towards the school. I yell: I like your shoes! She smiles. I like your face more! She smiles again. I would like to add that it was quite dark so I could see a little more than a sillhoette with delicious curves. My mother called me so I talked on the phone for a bit and when I look up she was quite a distance away. I ran up (litterraly) and said "STOP STOMPIN SO FAST! I want to meet you!" Commanding cars to stop as I crossed the street. Dude...her face was kind of manly. She accused me of being insane in a friendly way and asked me for my number. I gave her that and the other thing that set me off was her voice... IT WAS CRACKING. I asked her if she had a cold and she gave me a weird look. Basically, I think the only girl I was able to pull today was a tranny.
if you couldn't see her face how did you know she was smiling? i don't get to even make attempts anymore. i live in a small town and work in a small town. girls here either go off to college and never come back, or they marry their high school sweetheart the day after graduation and get pregnant the day after their wedding.
yeah, we only average about one or two teen pregnancies a year. with an average graduating class of probably just under 60, i'd say that's not too bad overall. in my experience, it's usually sophomores. if you make it to junior year baby free, you're generally safe up until graduation.
Seriously? You post something offensive about steatopygous (look it up) women and then apologise to those who desire such women? How about aplogising to the women? Or better yet, deleting your offensive and juvenile post? I know a few "fat chicks" who train in martial arts. They'd love to meet you.
I gotta work on my aggressive/manly side of me if I want success in this area. Being a good person, patient, kind, even confident or comfortable isn't enough it seems.
It's not being a good person that's bad, it's about being more assertive, which is what sociopaths and con-artists are especially good at. THAT's the leaf that you can take from their book that the good guys need to learn from, and also not taking rejection too personally. Because when a sociopath or con-artist fails (and they do), their resilience and calculation from learning of mistakes is what eventually drives them to success. This is why I think in lots of cases, the "jerks" target the emotionally insecure/unstable period in people's lives, that psycho-demographic gives them the most success for exploitation. The nice good guys don't need to go that far, but they can learn from resilience, patience, and assertiveness.
lol, I bet they would. And there are a lot of women who embrace being big/large/fat (or whatever you want to call it). I don't owe them (or anyone) any apologies. I simply apologized to people like yourself who took offense to my statement because I was in a sympathetic mood. However, I may soon retract that. There are a lot worse things in life than being called fat. Get over it already.
The worst thing is not understanding that it is not the name that you called someone, but the denigrating, lack of acknowledgement that you give to an entire group of people as if they are not human and you and your group of people that you regard as worthy of respect are somehow better. What I hope you learn is that not only people who are "fat" or people who "dig fat people" are the only one offended by this, but anyone who feels that humans are humans and no one is better than others, best of all that people who degrade and disregard a large group of people and does not understand or even acknowledge those people in the same regard is a classist...and anyone who cares about civil rights will "get over it" a lot faster than someone who doesn't even care to "get it" at all.
:nopity::nopity: Oh cry me a river. I don't see you guys getting your panties all up in a wad whenever someone gets called a slut, whore, or any other degrading name. You're trying to make something out of nothing (maybe you guys are just hating because I'm actually in shape). Iminmyunderwear and I were simply having some jokes on a thread. So why don't you guys just piss off and take your little internet keyboard warrior syndrome to another thread.
Well said. It's very human to categorize "us" vs "them", it's part of how the brain works though. Where it becomes a gray area is when you start the next step of value assessment on top of the "us" vs "them" being of a black or white nature like (good/bad, superior/inferior, weak/strong, worthy/unworthy, human/subhuman/god). That's not to say logic can't be used to point out facts or problems. In that context in my humble opinion it's okay to point out that someone is hoarding food, lying, stealing or is hurting someone emotionally, physically and/or spiritually. How you word something matters lots, an apologies are need to be issued and accepted genuinely. Everyone here needs to realize that TONE is what triggered the upset of people here in these last 8 posts or so, and realize that the words in of themselves like slut or fat, especially in this hippie forum, aren't always said in a negative way. It's ok to state that you're not personally attracted to fat chicks < that shouldn't be an offensive statement. But going farther to rate a value upon them in society as either positive or negative is where it becomes the point at which you can see why people get upset. ----- I should state that the logic that blunt truth or mean or insensitive comments are a wake-up-slap to the "victim" so that they might change their bad habits, is not a justification because there are other ways of positive reinforcement and easier truth telling. But xxaru has a point that over emotional sensitivity is a real drag sometimes, and in those cases I recommend just avoiding that person or staying silent.
