Ok guys I'm in an urgent situation right now. Basically I have a f*** mate and I kind of boasted about my sexual experience so she expected a lot while I actually ony had sex once. So at our first night together I was so clumsy that I could not put my penis in the right place. Had a lot of trouble putting it in and even more trouble with the thrusting part. I just couldn't get a good rhythm and didn't know how to make her feel good. The postions I tried was missionary, doggy and her on top. I couldn't even insert my penis in doggy and when she was on top my penis felt painful sometimes when she went up and down. My excuse was I had a bad day so not really into it but I know she would find out sooner or later. Really need some advice now dudes. Any videos/website with instructions will do. I need to become good at this asap.
have crappy sex with this fuckbuddy until she gets fed up and dumps you. then either have sex with 100 hookers, or with one hooker 100 times. then start over with a new fuckbuddy except only tell her you're average rather than great.
@OP, Nothing you read on the internet is going to convince this girl that you are as experienced as you claim. Confess your bragging, do your best, be aware of what she is/isn't liking, go slower than you want to, perhaps tap into her bossy/dominatrix side (if she has one and wants to play that role). Lots of licking, not too much sticking. If she isn't grabbing your cock and forcing it exactly where she wants it to go, she's not ready to be entered, more foreplay. (You would have thought that the designer would have set things up so that the angles matched. And what dummy in beta testing missed the problems with knees.)
General advice: 1. Communication with the said girl during the act. 2. Science and medical anatomy books. a. specifically stuff on female arousal b. common centers of high concentrations of nerve cells in the body c. general knowledge about psychology and the brain, and how it links with the rest of the nervous system. 3. Patience 4. Lots of foreplay (1 hour or more) 5. Massages can't hurt her either, but be warned, you must know your anatomy to do it safely and effectively. So yeah a LOT of knowledge CAN HELP you but there's no guarantee it'll make you an expert at sex. Also have some toys on hand...putting a new clean bullet vibe to her clit while you eat her out can't hurt.
Just kissing and touching, then prolonging, make it pretty hot. In the end, it isn't all about just penetration and cumming. Doing things that feel good during the whole process is the key.
Just like anything in life the more you do it, put into it and experience it the better you will get at it. There are no short cuts. You are better off not building yourself up as something you are not then making yourself off to be something you are not. You are only setting yourself up to look bad.
Oooh that's bad! Foreplay! And don't forget if the dick don't work. Your Oral work will never fail, and I have to say us woman never complain about that.
She will respect you if you are honest with her. Then practice and play, it will get better very quickly.
