My girlfriend won't do oral

explain what? the skin moves, and you don't need lube.

lube is nice to use, because it feels more like a vagina, but it is in no way necessary.

 

Tell her if she loves you she'll do what it takes to keep you sexually satisfied. Try to bring it with some tact, but basically that's the message you're going to want to convey. I'm guessing you're a nice person and its not your style to make explicit demands where it comes to getting your needs satisfied. But the thing is it's not just about your needs here. what's at stake is the type of relationship you're wanting to have. There may be more to a serious loving relationship than just all out sex. I'm sure there's people who don't have sex more than once a month but claim to love each other. There's millions of people who are as inept at communicating as can be, but nonetheless claim to have genuine feeling doe a significant other. There's quite a few people who manipulate and abuse one another, but when asked would swear they love each other. The problem with all these things is that 'love' has a different meaning to everyone. Semantics aside, you need to make clear what you want it to mean for you, and if your definition of love doesn't quite match hers, draw your conclusions. No way are you going to be happy if you can't even have an honest conversation about these things.

 

Ok, well the one guy that I saw that was snipped, the skin didn't move at all, it was tight, maybe the doctor took too much off?

BTW, I love the name you chose, I laugh everytime I see it! It's so cute

 

^weird, it seems like that would be painful.

thanks.

 

I used to hate oral with my ex but with my partner now i love it!

Think my reasons for not liking it before was because he asked or persuaded me into it. He was really selfish in bed and only wanted his pleasure, nothing in return...
My new partner is way more sexually open, he likes to explore and try new things, he doesn't demand or ask for anything and he gives a lot too so I think thats a big reason as to why I love giving.. I'd never expect anything in return but with my ex it was the same everytime, I got 0 pleasure, he got it all, it became very routine and boring..

I doubt shes not into you because of that, but have you spoken to her about why she doesn't like it? There could be loads of reasons why that don't mean she doesnt love ya too

 

I am very clean and I always scrub very well. I shave nearly everything. I try not to preasure her but it is so hard. I give her tons of oral too and she gets pissed when I don't WTF is up with that. I agree with nz male oral is very sensual and erotic.

 

Also I don't want to preasure or force her to do it because I know she won't enjoy it, hence I wouldn't enjoy it.

 

I really don't understand how a women can't like oral. It feel great both ways. Unless your not doing your part?

 

You just need to have a chat with her. That's all this boils down to. No other reply is worth the time it took to type besides "have a conversation with her." There is nothing we or anyone else but you can do to help you with the situation.

 

She won't talk to me about it. Every time I bring it up she just shuts down and instantly gets angry. Then I get angry, then the whole day goes to crap. It is a vicious cycle and It gets more frustrating by the day.

I guess either I learn to not care about or we go our seperate ways.

 

Well I don't feel it's right to guilt someone into doing sexual favors for you. If you absolutely can't go on without oral sex then it would be time to move on, though it would be a very selfish reason and you'd look like a douche when you dump her.

 

Start packing your bags, it's no big deal for a chick to give a BJ, my God it's her responsibility I say and I know haha

 

Im torn on this one. First because you give and yet she wont. Id say cut her off and say "when you start sucking my dick Ill start licking clit" But on the other spectrum your going to call it off because she doesnt suck dick?

And AmyBeachGirl since when is it womens responsibility to suck a dick. Suck that, (pun so intended!) and like hell I have too. Lol.

 

I'm kinda with Amy at this point.

She actually told me this morning after I got her off by sucking her clit that it would be an ender if I stopped. WTF!!!!!!!!!! Oh, and after I got her off she thanked me and got dressed and went downstairs.

 

Whenever I have sex (be it Gay or Straight), I always feel instinctively drawn towards giving Oral as part of foreplay before moving on to penetration and, to date, so have nearly all my partners (both male & female).

It, therefore, seems to be more of a deep rooted natural instinct, rather than an optional variation. I suspect that anyone who resists the urge is reacting more to what they've had drummed into them from an early age about sex & genitalia in general as being something 'dirty'.

 

How dare she expect u to give up all other sexual partners and experiences for her and then not cater to ur sexual needs u need to just brake up she needs someone who doesn't want oral(good luck with that shit) and u need a normal person who understands a relationship and making the people u care about happy.

 

You need a new girlfriend - seriously.