Hey. I'm a guy. As a kid I used to enjoy dressing up as a girl, etc. As a teenager I read all the ebooks available on the topic of dating. Well.. That was then. This is now. To be honest: today I feel pretty hellbent gay. That's why I'm feeling this way, because even though I enjoy pussy and have been madly(!) in love with girls... Right now I feel pretty darn gay. And sometimes I feel straight, sometimes I feel asexual. I mean.. What would you call that? Sexually bipolar? How do you feel about that? I feel like being a girl being fucked by a guy right now. Other times it's different and most people know me as straight. I dunno, but this shit makes me feel fucked up. And it's so much simpler for the girls. If they like girls it's a positive thing, If we like guys it's considered nasty and even bi girls wouldn't fuck you because of it. (Quote from a female friend) So I get it.. you're gay, you wanna fuck gays. Well... most gays are ok with fucking gays. I guess.. I'm bi. And I'm finding it a total mess.... And I need one more glass of wine. PS: I love wine. I'm gonna get shitfaced on my own tonight! O' brave new world! PSPS: I'm out. Gotta dig out the vodka.
Lol. I just felt like venting while drinking wine and I kninda think it's good for me. Yeah, you're right.. But you know what? I'm still telling everybody I'm straight. Do you? What's your age? I came out once before and even though nobody really mentioned it... or cared I really felt it affected my chances with the girls. Like I mentioned before, girls DON'T seem to like it (in my opinion).
Well, rule no 1. Never ever ever ever listen to what a chic says, or at oeast take it on face value, they say stuff like that in the hope you stick to girlss, i.e are whippable. What they really think about gay guys is pretty much the exact opposite of that
there are plenty of women out there who are into bi guys. don't let what some people say about your chances with the ladies affect what you really want. if you follow your desires you will get connected with the like-minded people you seek, guaranteed.
you're bi because you don't wanna fuck gays, just bisexuals and heterosexuals? yeah, you're lost on the topic.
Here we go again: you don't have to tell people anything unless you choose to. You don't have to explain your life and choices to anyone. Do your family and friends call you to ask your thoughts on their sex life and seek your approval? Life is too short for that kind of bs. Live it and enjoy it while you can And by the way, I'm a bisexual man that is married to a bisexual woman, and you know what? We have a great relationship, and have been best friends for over 6 years.
I think that men who fuck men and women have a rough time because two men together has not been sexualized by the media, its been demonized. but its really no ones business who you had sex with in the past. i dont think you have to disclose that information to anyone. as for your question about which sexuality you belong to, the best gift you can give yourself is not to even think about that shit. just celebrate your sexuality by accepting it as being forever changing, evolving and becoming. dont put a label on it, just enjoy the ride
I agree with that completely. You don't have to label anything. You're human. It's natural to wonder and to want. Doesn't necessarily mean anything. You like to feel good, leave it at that. You don't have to get confused about silly labels. Silly words. Just stick to what feels good. You don't have to explain yourself to anyone, even yourself sometimes. It just feels good. And I, being a girl, loves when a boy is open. I love when boys are accepting to anything, everything. It's lovely. I love when a boy knows how to feel good. Even if it is against society's norms. :grouphug:
