Hetero Female Only: Is Anal Sex a part of a "typical" sex life.

I'm pretty experienced and I've never done anal. There's a ton of it going on out there for sure though. Double penetration seems to be the new thing. I'm not interested, and if a man starts to lean that way, I steer him another. My now-husband asked once and I said "no". I love vaginal so much (with others because I cheat) that I just don't want to go to any other hole. I'd rather explore positions, or toys, or porn, or music, or dancing, etc.

 

The only "Everyone" that has mattered in the last 20 years is my wife.

It's still hot.

 

I'm a bisexual female. Can I still participate? That's a Rhetorical question. I'm going to do so regardless.

And none of the options really fits me. I have had anal sex, and I enjoy it immensely, but it's not something I do all the time, rather saving it guys I have a special bond with. I voted for the option that is closest, however.

 

I've been doing anal for about six years, and I confess that while I enjoyed the taboo and deviant nature of it I absolutely did not receive much physical joy from doing it. It was somewhat painful,and I was always self conscious about it. Then I started dating a guy who was really into anal, and I was really into him. We ended in anal virtually every time. With experience, I learned to really relax and enjoy the journey. I also started to prep myself before hand which totally took my mine off the messiness. Now I'm dating a super great guy who is equally as into it, and I can honestly say that having anal is how I want to get off every time. No kidding. It must be the way I'm wired.

 

In my marriage it is part of our regular day to day! We do it at least 4 times a month

 

It was been since I lost my virginity at 13. Now I probably do it more than vaginal.

 

even though it is some years since I have had a male partner -when i did, and i had two reasonably lengthy relationships (I've never married) anal sex was an occasional part.
I like it, but not overdone.

 

Almost always. It's definitely my preference when I am in long-term relationships.

 

I try to do it just for my husband, but I cant seem to get past the pain and uncomfortable feeling no matter how much lube is used. Even his fingers hurt

 

married 22 years, love my wife to death, always wanted to try it with her, she never would, then one night (about 8 years ago now) just to kill her curiosity (and to maybe please me) she allowed us to try it, we did all the prep work (enema etc) and as soon as i got it inside her, she did not enjoy it (very painful) so much so she tensed up on me and she almost killed my cock, but in all the anxiety, i actually came inside her before i could pull it out.

now, although she didnt like the anal sex, she did like the feeling of my hot cum juice squirting inside her ass, she said she felt the lot.

i am into anal play on myself, my wife does use dildos and vibrators on me, and has started doing perenium massages, and the odd rimming job, my next move is to get her to attempt prostate massage on me, and use her new Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Elite 8" Strapless Dildo on me, which i cant wait for her to use, when she finally becomes comfortable with using it on me, as she still thinks guys who want a dildo up their butt is somehow inclined to have gay tendencies, and i dont, i just love my ass being messed with :sunny:

 

bump

 

It's a still no for me but I want to try it... Yet I'm still a bit scared it might hurt :s

 

It takes prep, patience, and enough lube, but if it hurts, you're doing it wrong.

 

It is part of my sex life and I like it being so. Some times I prefer anal.

 

I've tried it, but it was very uncomfortable because my guy is thick. I also think he did some damage because I have trouble with "normal" bowel movements, but I've been taking care of it and it seems to be getting better. So, having said that, it was very painful for me and I've decided to opt out either for forever, or for a very long while.

 

I didn't think the Irish were into bum sex that much. I am Irish and have never tried anal with a girl. I wouldn't want to defile her completely before some other guy ends up having to marry her.

 

So you think there is a connection between ethnicity and anal sex??? How ridiculous.

As is the notion that consensual anal sex is defilement. If she wants it, and he wants it, who are you to judge?

 

Yeah, but you're also a total douche about sexuality and your relations and views towards women.

 

But the guy having to marry her would get to judge!!

 

And of course, it's all about the guy in your view, isn't it?

Women should be able to make their OWN sexual (and other) choices without misogynistic stereotyping based on someone else's views about who, when, where and how she should have sex.