What REALLY makes a woman want to sleep with a man?

What makes a woman want to sleep with a man? Is it true that a chap can laugh a woman into bed? Does he need to be tall, dark and handsome to stand any chance at all?

 

A great big, fat, bulging, leathery, well-filled one.







Wallet, that is.

 

I'm not tall......
and I do ok

 

Believe it or not, you can laugh a lot of women into bed. But you take a big risk of landing in the friend zone! But first you should know that first impressions are everything. A woman decided within the first seven seconds to decide if she wants to sleep with someone or not.

 

i dunno. money, for one. beyond that, it really seems pretty random.

what, you mean the whole "what i want in a man is a sense of humor" myth? obviously that's one of the biggest loads of bullshit that most people will ever hear.

nah. it doesn't hurt, but looks really don't seem to be that important to women. from what i've seen, the guys that get the most sex are generally of the fat and obnoxious variety.

 

I like to be charmed. Looks aren't extremely important to me.

 

From personal experience it's all about security. For some women it's about emotional security, for others it's materialistic (money ect). Find that level of security that they desire, make the connection and your good to go. It also doesn't hurt to look good, although women don't seem to care as much for looks as men do.

 

"Nobody want's to fuck a comedian," Frank Zappa.

C/S,
Rev J

 

It depends on a lot of things.

1. Type of humor used
2. Intellectual wit (social smarts)
3. The age/maturity range in the girls your trying to notice you.
4. The right balance of laid-backness with assertiveness
5. Money
6. Discretion (never brag about who you are bedding)
7. Be a friendly and approachable person but don't hide who you are but don't be an open book.
8. Being well dressed and well groomed.
9. Know how to converse (learn how to listen and watch her)

I'm sure most ladies will agree...the last one is important for first impressions.
Oh and if your in the USA, good teeth are kinda needed among the younger generations of adults 18-25.

 

Curiosity
Hormones
Procreative urge
Boredom - sick of masturbation
Prestige
payback
Payment
etc etc


.......and somewhere deep, deep down there ....... LURVE!!!!

 

Living in your mothers basement, shows commitment, you should tell that to every girl you want to nail, you'll be Golden Gerald


Although if that is your first name, you might want to change it, maybe to Roger

 

Depends on the girl:

a) the ugly ones want commitment. Any and all character or physical traits are only important insofar as they spell commitment. They'll rationalize it as "personality", "what matters is the inside", and "love", but it's really just codependency. Prepare to be nagged.

b) the pretty, princessy ones want to be chased. They are emotional black holes, and you need to suck up to them endlessly. After a few months they "won't be able to resist you";

c) the ambitious ones want a guy who's tall, square jaw, six pack, bulging shoulders, arms, and pecs. Prepare to be introduced to everyone, every friend of hers, etc. You'll be constantly watched;

d) the slutty ones just need you to play games, so they don't feel slutty. Play games for half an hour, and get in their pants right then and there. It doesn't matter if you're fat or skinny! They probably are too!

e) The bitchy ones want a guy that'll pay. Pay pay pay, stick it in their pussy and you're ok.

 

Hmmm...charm, sexual chemistry, respect.

 

Someone friendly, attentive, smart, nice eyes, firm butt, classy, good kisser.

 

That's me except I am a great kisser.

 

It takes so much for me to get into bed with a man. Considering that I'm 21 and I've only slept with two men (I've only even made out with two men), both that I've been in long term relationships with (three years for my first, over a year now on my second).. I'll let you think about it

 

Come on over !

 

I'll meet you half way?

 

All ugly girls are codependent and nag and all pretty girls are emotional black holes.Wow, learn something new everyday here at hip.