Do men lie about you being the best at giving bj's?

i would never tell a chick that shes the best unless she really is.
But then i read the thread title. What an awesome idea for a way to get more head lol.

 

From the moment the penis makes contact with your partner, be it Oral, Anal, Vaginal, or plain Masturbation, the hormones go into hyperdrive, and that particular session is quite likely to feel as if it really IS the best ever - at least, at that moment in time. So, by telling his partner that he / she was the best may not technically be considered a lie, as he may even believe it himself.

 

Adding to my other post and to what has been most recently posted, even if it's not the best job you can always coach her to do things by saying it feels really good if you do ___ or I wanna try ___ and then kinda craft the bj to your liking as long as she's willing and cooperative.


There's no need to insult unless you are actively trying to end the relationship.

 

Sometimes you gotta lie and/or embellish during the sex, and immediately afterwards. Girls make comments all the time, "oh my god, that was amazing" blah, blah, blah... I pay such comments no mind unless they are given in a non-sexual setting.

If you want an honest answer about anything sexual, you have to ask it when there's no sex taking place .

 

Lying only leads to frustration - I never lie to my primary... about anything! One of the best parts of our relationship is true, brutal honesty. We're much happier because of it.

Let alone lying about sex... good sex is important in a relationship for me and it is for her too.

She didn't know how to give good head when I met her... but she wanted to learn & I was happy to teach her. I can now honestly say she gives the best blow jobs I've ever had & to boot - she loves giving them! :afro:



Some people are definitely afraid about being truthful... it's a shame... but honesty definitely works well.

 

If he wants more... then you can't be doing that bad of a job.

If it wasn't good then he would either try to do something about it, or stop wanting them - most likely.

If you didn't enjoy something.... would you ask for more?

 

I completly agree with you on being honest about everything! We are in the same vote as you and we are also much happier because of it.

 

My boyfriend just tells me that my blowjobs are alright. But that's ok, because I hate giving them and I just give lazy sloppy blow jobs anyway.

 

Why do you hate it?

From my experience... it tends to be a concern about lack of washing. Do you enjoy receiving?

Have a good wash beforehand... in fact, start your encounter in the shower, washing each other - it's fun! Then both go to town on each other, but really put a lot of effort in.

I have a feeling you might enjoy it more than you think... commit & explore... it can be really a lot of fun & very enjoyable for both.

 

Because it's boring and I'm not a sexual person by natural anyways

I'm a chick, so I can't really say that I get all too many blow jobs.. but no, I do not enjoy receiving.

I don't let him wash me because a) shower time is my time to get away from him, and b) I don't let people wash me, I've got a thing about people touching certain parts of my skin

Ever since my ovaries broke, I really don't like anything sexual. Actually, my ovaries have always been broke... sex hurts and blow jobs are boring

 

Wow - thanks for sharing, but that really sucks for you

I would hate to be in your position.

Forgetting the sexual aspect - I've always thought of the point of such a close relationship is being able to share the most intimate parts of yourself with the person you care about the most.

Yet you want "to get away from him" and you won't let him touch you some places.

Very small amount of information of course... but it sounds like you're in a relationship you don't want to be in & perhaps have some other deep seeded emotional issues - might be beneficial to speak to a professional.

Not meaning to sound bad, just an idea that *may* help you feel better

 

I don't let anyone touch me in certain places because I have moles and a skin disease and it hurts to be touched. It has nothing to do with how close you are to somebody.. if it hurts, you generally don't do it.

But yeah.. when you're around someone for like 24 hours a day, sometimes you have to get away.. especially when you like your alone time and the one you love is so needy and high maintenance. They say opposites attract.. so who knows.

I want to be in this relationship, I just have huge expectations of personal space and when I tell someone that I want to be by myself right now, I don't mean it in a mean way, I just mean leave me alone right now, you're always next to me and you're making me hot, you know?

No professional help, either.. I moved, lost all my health insurance and have no access to any of my medications.

 

Fair enough, wrong interpretation on my behalf

I know the desire for alone time... it was just the way you phrased it, it seemed like it was the only time you had away and you wouldn't even consider sharing it as a one-off

 

I would never consider sharing it anyway. But then again, I'm just mean-spirited and I guess even my typed words come across that way. So much for hiding behind the interwebs

 

Amybeachgirl-I had two exes that would beg me to give them bj's way after we broke up. A guy begging for sex is a turn off to me, especially when you're not even together. I try to be nice to people, but I had to bluntly tell them"I'm not attracted to you. That's why I don't want to give you bj's". Even if a guy doesn't think I'm good, I still get my own pleasure out of the act anyway.

 

I wouldn't be blunt about it, but I would and have told them what I like.

 

Well my boyfriend tells me I'm the best, and I know he's been with a good amount of women.

But I also teach myself how to give a good one by listening to his reactions.

 

I gota know what your techniques are, i'm worried i'm missing out on something! :2thumbsup:

 

I just want to say that you sound like an introvert, like me! Not exactly a bad thing, but not a good thing either. See I love my partner, but sometimes I just get so worn down by exposure to both him and other people I just need to be left ALONE! This is typical for introverts and nothing to be ashamed of, but it is something that your partner should be informed about.

 

Really guys..pay attention to this. It's one thing to make a girl know she is wanted, but begging for her to be sexually involved with you or to do sexual favors for you is a HUGE turn off for many girls!

 

It's just like when we tell how big their d**k is and how much it fills us up!