Do you prefer petite girls / woman as a bigger advantage to taller one's or not?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by nz male, Sep 29, 2012.

  1. jamgrassphan

    jamgrassphan Get up offa that thing Lifetime Supporter

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    Oh there's this tiny woman who is a friend of a friend. She's kind of gothy/hipsterish - shoots hand guns and looks like she just stepped out of Rivendale. She's got to be about 4'10" and she fits the bill for my elven fetish for sure. I turn into an absolute blithering idiot everytime I'm in her presence. Honestly, I think I could date a little person if she was cute enough. The only women I've dated who were taller than me, were the ones that approached me - I'm 5' 7" and I don't think I'd have any psychological issues with dating a woman who was a lot taller than me, but typically I've found that women who are a great deal taller than me don't find the menfolk of the Shire very attractive, so I tend to filter them out. My last lady friend was about 2 inches taller than me, and she loved to point it out at every opportunity. It was a running gag, and for laughs, I pretended to deny it - I never once acknowledged and yielded to the fact, but it was obvious, especially when she wore her big clonky sexy boots out. Really it kind of turned me on that she was taller than me and she knew. it. . . . wait, what was the question :)
     
  2. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    One of my female co workers was telling 2 of us, that she thinks she's fat - she's not at all - more on the very slim side & petite & not skinny. The other co worker told her she's not fat .Do I tell her that she's perfectly sized & slim & hope she takes my compliment in a good way? We get on well with each other. So if she heard if from a male , she may feel better about herself then & like my comment.
     
  3. puggybear

    puggybear stars may twinkle-but I shine!

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    On the other hand,you could reserve your compliments for the lady who has been travelling through life with you for the past 19 years.
    But of course,such fidelity just wouldn't occur to you,now would it.
     
  4. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    We have been married for 29 yrs next month - not 19.
    I compliment her on her figure (even if it is skinny looking in places that she hates the look of as well) also the clothes she looks nice in, her great ability to manage our finances etc. We get on well a big majority of the time but who doesn't have a few disagreements with their partner? We share a lot of things in common & both of us have our own hobbies or have the same interests as well.
     
  5. klpic

    klpic Member

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    my wife is very petite just over 5ft where i am over 6ft small boobs and I would not change her in any way
     
  6. MrSpankHappy

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    Myself, as long as their is chemistry, body makeup is really not important to me.. been with someone small and petite and someone on the larger end.. both were just as fantastic as can be in bed.. I look at it this way... if the sex is that bad, I am 1/2 at fault.. takes 2 to tango.
     
  7. Essef

    Essef Member

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    I like petite women, always have. The muscular gymnast-type. But i like women who look like "women", not "girls". Short (south of 5f4i), muscular, nice butt, small waist, yum.
     
  8. puggybear

    puggybear stars may twinkle-but I shine!

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    I have a feeling that if your wife read any of your posts you write on here nz she would be gone and I would not blame her one bit for leaving!

    No, she won't / can't find out - I have ways of dealing with that.

    So,you DO know what you're doing is wrong!
    AND fucking sleazy-which is why you hide it from her.
    The day that trusting lady finds out,you will discover just HOW wrong.
    Oh,but yours is just a healthy interest in straining to see down tops/up skirts isn't it.
    I'm sure she'll see it your way-so why are you hiding it from her?

    "Hell hath no rage like love to fury turned,nor Hell a fury like a woman scorned"
     
  9. Leila_xo

    Leila_xo Member

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    haha wow these responses make me happy to be a petitie woman :D
     
  10. jimandjan

    jimandjan Member

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    I would have to say I prefer petite, since I married one. I have also had a couple of other partners on the petite side, who seemed to be the real go getters. Who were willing to put extra energy into our sexual encounters.
     
  11. roamy

    roamy Senior Member

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    if 5ft is petite.why do people call me petite when i'm 5ft 3in.
     
  12. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    They must be a lot taller & they possibly have a certain height you come up to them that they use as their own guide for determining what they think is petite - maybe ?
    I have a female co worker who's about 4 foot 8 & she's very slim & definitely petite.
     
  13. roamy

    roamy Senior Member

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    ya, maybe,but how dose that account for people less taller than me calling me petite ?
     
  14. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    Do you consider yourself to be skinny / slim at all ?
    Some use the word petite to refer to a persons build & not their height.
     
  15. roamy

    roamy Senior Member

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    thats why so
     
  16. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    Hahahaaaaa! Nothing but nothing is secret on the web.
    Your IP is on Kokopu Road, Whangaeri, Auckland.
    Two clicks got me that info. Two.
     

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