showing up unannounced

I dislike it but never slam the door before them myself (probably just for the reason I would not like it when they'd do that to me..). When a guest would get without invitation in my closets or get nosy about stuff I don't appreciate they will find themselves outside rather quick though

edit: when someone has a valid reason for showing up unexpected like they lost their keys or whatever I rarely get pissed at them either.

 

id never show up unannounced. Would want to know my visit was welcome. One can never know what to expect and I wouldn't want to appear rude

 

i'm something like 15% native american. that part of my blood must be broken.

i don't think i've ever told her she can't visit, i just like to know about it ahead of time.

 

Haha, I'm part Native-American and don't feel comfortable with showing up unannounced. However, that might explain my friend who is about 75% Native American who once came by and when no one answered the door, he tried coming in through the window. lol, And I can say while I prefer most of my friends let me know BEFORE they come by, there are a couple of friends (haha, they're Chickasaws, too) who could knock down my door any time, any day, no notice at all. But those are friends who are cool with weed, they both live far far away so we don't see them ever, and they're like family. lol

As a general rule, my friends know to call first, especially the ones who live far away. I had a friend get super super butthurt several years ago because he came over directly after he got off work, brought a girl we both worked with along, and didn't call. I was not in the mood to have company, so we just didn't answer the door. The two proceeded to sit on my porch for an hour and a half before Daniel went out and told them we weren't having company that day. God, they got so butthurt. It was stupid, so we laid down the line right then and now most of our friends know better than to just show up.

 

you know when youre sitting on the porch smoking a joint and the mailman comes.. I hate that!!

 

Myself, I will occasionally show up at my mom's house unexpectedly, mainly because I just happened to be in the area, and maybe looking for something. Most other people, I will generally call first.
People rarely show up at our door unexpectedly, unless they are lost, or happen to be in the vicinity and needed to stop for some info. It can be a huge waste of time for somebody if they show up here, and we are away for the day. The nearest village is 15 km away, and takes about 15 minutes drive. Most people don't like to drive that far just on a whim, to go and visit.

 

I don't like showing up at people's doors unexpectedly unless it's family or people I'm very, very close to(closer to or like family). As a matter of fact if someone tells me, "come over anytime" I feel uncomfortable doing that...sometimes I force myself(if I'm already out and time is not on my side), but I usually try to text or call first. On the other hand, I totally don't mind at all when other people do it to me. As long as they don't expect anything(like the time my uncle and his other niece dropped by and told me I was going to watch her kid while they went to watch a movie!), I'm happy to have them around. I am not a hostess though... I'm not going to drop everything I'm doing(unless I really want to and don't see that person often) but the guests are welcome to make themselves at home, join in with what I'm doing, or entertain themselves if I'm doing something I need to do alone. There have been a few times when I lived in communities where I was comfortable enough dropping by people's houses on a whim and vice versa and it was just something that happened all the time...everyone was into it and it was kinda like a family-you-choose kind of thing. I miss that actually.

 

I hate it...and kiwis do it all the time...

 

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FIRST ORIGINAL POST FROM UNDIES I THINK I'VE EVER SEEN

 

So, undies, after your mom left, did you continue wanking?

 

I've been known to leave unannounced visitors standing at the door knocking, including family members. I take it as blatant disrespect when I tell people to call prior to coming by and they can't respect my wishes, so I feel I'm justified and could care less about how they feel. Obviously they don't care I how feel about it, so I have to do what I have to do.

 

I don't even go to my own parents' house without calling first. I have a key and am "welcome anytime, day or night, no need to call" but I know what moms and dads do when they are alone, and I DO NOT want to walk in on that.

 

obviously.

although by that point it's more of a reboot than a continuation.

 

what makes you think he ever stopped? she just had a short visit

 

I do not just pop in on people and I do not appreciate anyone just popping in on me.

If someone were to call it would be a rare thing for me not to then extend an invitation but a call is something I expect to have happen.

 

I would prefer a courtesy call myself

 

I call first too. One time I went over and walked on in and headed to their basement, my dad was down there and he kinda ran to this room on the side and threw something in there and shut the door real quick... Don't know what he was doing, don't wanna know, but he was acting suspicious. Since then I at least always knock when I go over, but usually call first.

 

ALL three times she was over. i can't help but think the same thing.

I was under the impression everyone announced before they went over to someone's place.

 

just the last three. she's done this several times before. it happened a bunch of times when i first moved back here, then stopped for a while, then out of nowhere it happened again 3 times in about 2 weeks, all when i happened to be spanking.

 

You know, if you got yourself a real girl, your mom would only interrupt you once before calling next time.