My husband wants to go to swinger parties

My husband wants to take me to swinger parties. I don't know why he wants to do that. He says he loves me and wants to experiment and spicen our sex life.

He's a very nice guy and has done so much for me.

I'm not especially keen on the idea though, but I love him and want to please him.

 

i dont think its very wise since the idea of swinging is recieving pleasure in ur partners experience with another person, so if u wouldnt like it he shouldnt either basically its both or none

dont do it to please him cause ultimately it should be agreed by both parties

 

if you dont want to do it, then its just like cheating really. dont go for it

 

Yeah If you do it to please your husband you might as well sign over your soul.
If he loves you he would respect your opinion.

 

Jeez. Why is it that the guys who wanna go and be shits to their girl always seem to get a girl, and those of us capable of being good to a girl go without?

Your man should give you up to someone who would love and care for YOU, and be willing to be with you exclusively. Some guys just grab for too fuckin' much.

I think you should not do it. But the problem is, now you know he wants it. Do you think your relationship can go back to being all fine? He wants something he can't have. Possibly he will begin cheating on you because he still needs this release. Don't go thinking that the desire and the attempts will just dissipate into nothingness. A Pandora's Box has been opened just by virtue of his coming out with this fantasy.

-Jeffrey

 

Basicly he wants to fuck someone else and is trying this so to not just flat out cheat on you. Divorce his ass and join my naked club.

 

Yep. That's what I think all guys who are into "swinging" are about. They want too much sex, and aren't willing to do the respect to a woman by being willing to have it just with her. Shitheels, they are.

-Jeffrey

 

Is this the same pastor-husband that raped you in the "first fuck" thread? Cuz if it is...

 

of all the bullshit, that piece of shit wants to have sex with multiple people while others have no one, he is grabbing for to much, if you feel uncompfortable about it, tell him, because its not fair to either of you.

 

EXACTLY my feelings! The guy has a lot of nerve; he's got a wife to have sex with (she's apparently willing), but wants more than some of us have at all.

Screw him.

-Jeffrey

 

LMAO! What a bunch of hippie prudes. Ya ever think this guy might be a sexual creature who is in love but doesn't want to spend the rest of his life only having sex with one person? If you guys don't have anyone to screw, it is not this guy's fault.

He had the decency to be honest with his woman, instead of cheating, and he's getting raked in here by a bunch of folks who don't know A) If she is trying to please him B) how long they have been together C) whether or not he prioritizes her needs and wants above his...i.e...whether or not he will respect her wishes if she does not feel comfortable with swinging.

Open up your minds and your legs will follow, is my humble albeit unsolicited advice. Swinging has saved a lot of marriages from distater, and it has ruined a lot of good ones too. There are no blanket one size fits all condoms, or approaches to marriage.

What about his needs too? It is a two way street, and both should put the other's wants equalto their own. That is what marriage is all about. My 2kb worth.

Peace and lust, V-

 

I love my man and would go the extra mile to please him, as long as he doesn't have sex with others. In my opinion, it's all about pleasing your man and taking care of his needs, shower attention to him as you would a child.

 

I wouldn't do it. Why would you worry about you not pleasing him when he should be worrying abut why he wants to be with somone else. he's wrong for thinking it not you for not wanting to do it.