I know that most "establishment" nudist insist that going nude has nothing to do with sex, and that true nudists are not exhibiting themselves. If that is really true, then I need an explanation about what I saw at a nudist club. A woman, in her fifties, was seated at the edge of the swimming pool. Her legs were apart enough that anyone who came near would see that she had shaved her pubic hair, which is no big deal since many nudist women do so, but she had also had her labia pierced and had a small gold pad-lock hanging there. Now my questions it this: Did this lady want the others to notice her padlock, or was she merely doing whatever she needed to do to enjoy the experience herself? It is my guess that she actually wanted Us to look at her and notice the way she had "enhanced" this most private part of her body. Amontillado, am I right, or wrong?
You may very well be right, though I wonder why you're asking me in particular! If she is an exhibitionist, then she's not a true nudist, and there's your explanation. If you're thinking that I somehow believe that nobody at a nudist venue would ever go there with a sexual agenda, you're quite wrong--I get reminded about that every time I see one of your postings. Knowing your interests, I'd have expected you to do a quick scan of the surrounding area, to see if her husband was sitting in the background somewhere, checking to see who looked at her. You probably aren't the only guy in the world who has a fetish about looking at another man's wife, or putting your own on display.
Of course we notice others in nude situations and correspondingly expect to be noticed. However, generally speaking we keep our thoughts to ourselves and apart from a smile or nod probably don't interact with strangers. As for body piercing my personal view is that I just don't agree with it (earrings excepted) but that's my choice. Though my preference is for light trimming rather than shaving the individual's choice is a matter of personal preference. Let's face it if you're nude on a beach you simply don't worry about whether or not different areas of your body are visible or not. Unusual nude experiences for me would be times when it felt especially right or wrong. It is invariably nicer to be clothes free even if you are in a minority as long as it's in a situation where it is accepted.
I guess you are more interested in the discussion about your detection than in an answer to your questions concerning intentions and motivations of one single lady in a single moment. You just might have asked her, and finished. But you need to tell that you are hanging around in a nudist resort and check out if the girls’ pussies are shaved or pierced, to tell that in your opinion wearing a piercing automatically makes nudism sexualized etc. This tells more about you than about the lady you did observe ;-) For me, in my concept of nudism there is no place for piercings. But this is my single private thinking (naked is naked without anything). I know that there are people who prefer having piercings and feel pretty fine with (some of my best friends for example), so why disapprove them?
Sometimes I relax sometimes I like to show off. Sometimes I'm a nudist sometimes I'm an exhibitionist. And all this can happen in a single day.
Many members of naturist clubs shave their pubic hair today. This appears to be a fashion. Some members have tatoos in their pubic region. As far as genital jewellery goes the only example I know of is of a male with a piercing. There was some unfortunate publicity about this, would you believe, on the grounds that the member was not a true naturist.
Psychology teaches us that human sexuality is quite more than to f... with another person. The simple enjoy of your physical body has an erothic aspect. The force that makes you enjoy your nudity is part of your sexuality. It's normal, it's natural, it's good. Yours truly: Toivo
At a spa I used to go to a couple came along, the wife being pierced down there. She got fed up with unwanted attention.
I don't believe we can ignore the fact that when persons of both sexes are naked together, that they do look at each other, and in all those "intimate" places. Anyone who would be offended to know that others are looking at them should not be there in the first place. I still believe that the whole nudist "culture" is dependent on the fact that people like to look at naked people, and that they like for others to see them naked too. (And yes, this includes them looking at our wives, as well) Without this one factor, the whole business would collapse overnight. For example, when a man sees other men naked, he remembers which ones were circumcised, and which ones were the best "endowed". When he sees women naked, he remembers just which ones had the biggest breasts, and which ones had shaved their pubic hair.
This troll Son of John, will NEVER EVER accept the explanations that have been given to him about nudism over the past few years. He's a mouth breathing, drooling voyeur who will not separate nudist from sexual behavior.
Im glad i didnt see that!!! Shaved her hair there,DISGUSTING!! -- Pierced it?? Also disgusting............
I am sure that my time spent at nudist clubs would equal that of any of the posters on this site. I have talked with numerous "naturists" of both sexes and have gotten their perspectives on a whole range of topics having to do with social nudism. I do not need "experts" like the ones who post here to tell me what "real" nudism is all about. I have been there and have experienced it for myself. I would be glad to share my findings with any who are truly interested, and open to the findings of others, but I have no time to spend on those "lurkers" like this clown who would have us believe that they have "The Truth"!!
Maybe so, but you've also posted messages about what a thrill you get out of seeing other men looking at your wife, in the Love and Sex > Masturbation section here on Hipforums. I won't call you a "troll" but honestly, what you've been clear about is a sexual interest in nudity, and not much else. Maybe you'd be more welcome discussing nudity in the sex forum, rather than sex in the nudity forum.
