Older woman experience

Hey guys. I've only ever replied to posts before so this my first post. I'm single at the moment and have just started texting an older lady again. When we first started texting, she was married so I didn't doing anything with her, due to my morals/conscience. Now she's divorced and is interested in meeting. She's only 13 years older than me so that doesn't bother me.

My problem is that I'm still a virgin. Should I tell her? Surely she'll know when I fuck her anyway?! Any help would be appreciated.

 

Tell her. I am sure she would love to show you all she knows and teach you what she likes. It isn't a bad thing to be a virgin.

 

assuming you want to have sex with her more than once, you'll probably be better off telling her.

of course, doing so also decreases the chances of having sex with her for the first time, but i think the average amount of sex you're likely to have after telling her is greater than the amount after not telling her.

 

Thanks guys. I kind of expected a sarcastic answer from you, I'minmyunderwear!

 

I wouldn't tell her! That could blow your chances of getting laid for the first time and you could be waiting years for a second chance. Do you want to be a 25 year old virgin??

 

I wouldn't tell her tell after you start taking your clothes off.

 

I lost my virginity when I was 23 to a nymphomaniac woman in her mid-40s, when she forcibly molested me.
Because I was still a virgin & extremely nervous I did my best to resist, but eventually the instinctive sex drive kicked in.
To be honest, before the event she didn't know that I was a virgin - in fact, if anything I had given the impression that I was a bit of a stud, but once the deed was done I rolled over & admitted "Well, there goes my virginity", and although she was astounded, she was also chuffed that she my first experience was with her.

So, depending on the personality of the woman, it may be beneficial to tell her beforehand, as she may take it as a compliment that she's to be the one. On the other hand, it may be better not to let on until afterwards.

Either way, regardless of whether you choose to tell her or not, I would advise you to make sure of masturbating an hour or so beforehand to reduce the chances of overexcitement of the event inducing premature ejaculation - something that is all too commonplace the first time.

Plus, if you can get to video the loss of your virginity, that will be a keeper you can value for the rest of your life.

 

Thanks for the advice. I probably won't be doing anything with her now as I'm seeing someone else my own age that I really like.