Women sharing their man?

Im not talking about threesomes, im talking about letting your man go out there and get fucked by another women. Does it turn you on?

Ive heard of men being turned on by sharing their wife but is it the same story with women?


Opinions please, let them rip.

 

I had a one-night stand with a chick who asked me to show her pictures of girls I had fucked. She got really horny from it, and kept mentioning it while we were fucking.

She had some kind of cuckold fetish though, because she'd role play being mad at me for fucking the other women.

Too bad I had to let her go. She was a basket case. And, one who played little scheduling games, what's worse.

 

LOL! Cherea


No, i could not imagine my boyfriend fucking any other person, and definatly couldn't allow him to do it. He has the same views.

 

I've got several girlfriends and they all know I have other girlfriends (I make that clear up front) and none of them seem bothered by it.

On occassion I run into someone who I'd like to bed but she declines because she knows I have other lovers.

"Small town, big hell" is what they say here.

 

Wow, I wish I could meet someone like you one day

 

I'll take that trade off any day. You're sexy.

 

We agree with that kind of thinking 100%. If you are going to live the lifestyle both partners should get what they want out of it.

 

If only more girls were like you. I mean, I don't actually know how my girlfriend would feel about it, but it's probably safe to assume she wouldn't like it. I'm not complaining because she's great, but some day there might come an opportunity where I could fuck another sexy girl that I would regret turning down, and it would be just strictly a fuck, because I'm emotionally invested only in my girlfriend. And that's what many girls can't understand, that it's perfectly possible for most guys to love their woman to bits and still be able to hook up with another girl without it affecting the relationship in any negative way.

 

A girl rejecting the lifestyle never stopped anyone from partaking before. If she's not down with it, she doesn't have to know about it. Just don't get caught.

 

Well, except the people who actually didn't want to betray their partner. And the people who do do it, most of them get caught eventually. Such a dumb way to end a relationship. "I love you, and want to be monogamous with you. However secretely, i'm going to go against your wishes and have sex with other women so I can feel like a big man, because I don't get that from you." Then why be with the woman to begin with? There's no two ways around it, it's childish, selfish, and all about instant ego gratification.

 

Hey, I'm not disagreeing with you. I'm just telling it like it is.

 

That's why I say communication is the key! Knowing what each other like and dislike. Personally I couldn't see my girlfriend with another guy, I dam show not going to watch.

 

Not getting caught is a good start, but she is wife material more than a simple girlfriend, so I'm afraid I would need her permission before doing something with potentially undesirable consequences :angel:

Besides I can't stand condoms and if I cheated on her and caught any disease, she would immediately know. She is golden and we have never had an argument or major disagreement about anything, want it to stay like that. Who knows maybe she is down with the "lifestyle", it's not like I have asked her that specifically, all I know is that she "wants just me and doesn't need a threesome". I'm going to find out more in due time.

 

After a lot of thinking, about people sharing their partners, especially men, I cant understand it. Why?

I think of it as lions in the pride, or baboons. The Alpha dominant male is the male who gets to sleep with the other females, he doesnt share his females with other males because then he loses the game of natural selection.

Really, if you're so insecure and feel you cant satisfy your wife and need other men to do it for you then something must be wrong with your relationship. Just the thought of needing to satisfy your wife so much shows an imbalance. You treat her good outside the bedroom , and she treats you good inside the bedroom.
Its only that recently more women have started making more money than their male counterparts and so a changing of household roles has created of society so focused on female pleasure.

I do not fall into this category, I treat my girlfriend great , pay for everythhing , treat her like a princess. So when it comes to the bedroom I like to relax and let her go to work and show me how much she appreciates everything I do.
None of this nonesense men are stressing about pleasuring.

Please, what a joke. Get your balls back.

 

I agree. ^

 

Ouch! Looks like somebody's ass just got owned! :2thumbsup: Next time he'll probably read the thread before he opens his big mouth.

 

no. not even ever. never. maybe i'm just too selfish, jealous, but i don't care.
if i was with someone and i wasn't in love with them then yes. i have done the multiple dating thing and that was ok, but once in love the bolt goes on never to be opened for anything.

 

I am very aware of where i posted, Hell I created the damn thread , and its relevant to the topic.

but it reply, are they really happy? How many people live their life in doubt and fear of truly being happy?

Trust me honey, ive met housewives married to total dictators who control them with fear who claim they are happy , when in reality they really arent.

Big mouth? Im replying in my own thread, i can post as much as id like to.

You on the other have nothing important to contribute on the topic and your pathetic attempt at an online insult is not needed. Whos the big mouth now? Such irony in your post too. Your insults are not needed, so dont post unless you actually have something intelligent or contributing to say.

You want to try to insult people ? Go make your own thread and play there.

 

No. It doesn't turn me on at all.

I would never tell my boyfriend to go fuck another girl, im his and he is mine. Finders keepers losers weepers.

 

Thank you for your opinions.

And dont think of yourselves as jealous, needy, possessive. Those are just insults used by those who dont agree with you.

 

Irony?? Dude, you're the one who posted the question to begin with, asking for peoples thoughts as to whether sharing their partner was a turn on for them. And then you go and follow that up with a post calling people that share their partners "insecure" and unable to satisfy their partner sexually? This alone proves you're even thicker than I thought, because you don't even have the capacity to comprehend the basis behind why people share partners in the first place!!

And for the record, I wasn't insulting you with my previous post. If I wanted to insult you... trust me you'd know it. But now I am actually going to insult you. Why? Not only because you're about as dumb as a rock. But also because you basically insulted ALL women by making statements suggesting that females should stay in a certain "place" and be subserviente to men. Because why on earth should a man concern himself with pleasuring any woman sexually... as it's her job to please and serve you (the man ) while you sit on your fat ass and do nothing because you're an "alpha male". Give me a fucking break.

Why don't you do us all a favor and piss off with your ignorant and idiotic views.

 

Agreed.~^^

 

your bf must be a very happy guy.