I don't know how I missed that initial part of this thread...but I've read it all, and now tears run down my face. My heart goes totally out to you, Ty...and wish for you to feel a type of love and comfort that can only come from the other side. In time I feel that you will dream of them all. They will let you know they are alright, and waiting for you. As you said earlier, your crossed-over companions are with each other, which is something I totally agree with...and I'll tell you a little theory (belief) I have about about our beloved, passed animal companions. I think not only that they are together, but they are also watched over/loved/"petted" by human souls that loved animals while in the flesh. Of course I realize how irrational that may seem; but, at the same time I really do think that is the way it is. You will see them again.
Tyrsonswood you know how I feel. I am glad you were able to finally get back online. Tears for you and your loved ones.
I've dreamed of this place Lynn I also once dreamed that my five yr old grandaughter climbed onto my lap and whispered in my ear "granma I had a dream and I'm supposed to tell you that Sam (pet that passed) is okay. He is with Suzy and Jody." I was surprised because Sam died 5 yrs before she was born. I asked her if that was in the place where animals go when they die. She smiled her sweet smile and said "yes"... I like to think that these aren't just dreams, that for a moment I was able to glimpse the other side I believe with all my heart Tyrsonswood that you WILL see them again...hugs...
To lose your animal friend is a pain almost indescribable, exacerbated by the failure to understand by those who have not been granted entrance to that sacred sanctum. Know in this place there is no separation, not now, not ever. For the bonds will never be broken, and that love will remind you they are always there, closer than your own heartbeat.
Ty, I am so sorry for your unhappiness. What happens to us in this life we can only learn to deal with for there is no changing it. I have lost my furry family here rencently also. I know your pain. The loss of material things do not compare with the loss of a loved one, a cherished companion and a partner in life. The empty space in your heart will fill with the precious moments you shared, which can never be taken away. Your happiness will return in every memory. Hold fast to those moments for they will be what gets you through. There is no comfort that words can relay, just know there are meany hearts here for you and we are send out our most precious Love and Healing Energy to you. Take all you need my friend and be well. Love You Ty <3 sh
Just read this - so sorry for your loss man! The pain does get better, it's just time that's required, hang in there!
Part of an email that I sent to someone I know... She's not part of this forum. Chances are she will not be able to read it all the way through, and some here may not want to read it either but I have to put this out there for some reason. The first part of the email is in post 17 of this thread Summerland I really did try... I just couldn't save them. Oh Gods this just hurts so fucking bad... Thor in Feb. 2012 Mr Alexander Spots the ancient starling last month... He's flying around the group with brand new wings, sight and feet that are not wracked with arthritis... Now this... It's just too much, you know?
There are just no words adequate, Ty. With all the bs I've been through, I cannot imagine this. I just pray you find some comfort...somehow, someway.
Oh, Ty! :grouphug: There is no doubt that you tried with everything in you! It was painful to read but I wanted to know. Maybe in the sharing of it, each one that reads it can take on a bit of the pain so that it won't be so much for you to carry by yourself. So much love going out to you. So many prayers for strength to sustain you, and for light to accompany you out of the darkness.
:grouphug: and more :grouphug: Blessed be Erin for saving you. My heart is bursting for all your pain. :grouphug:
There are no words... Erin saved your life and you saved hers. I send you, Erin and Spooky strength, love and light, in hope that you all recover and heal from this tragedy. :grouphug:
I just heard this morning about your terrible loss.My thoughts are with you.Try to keep strong.I know you will.