I need your prayers

for serenity

My grandmother is coming over, my aunt will not be here as a buffer and my grandma is the most negative person I have ever met.

No, seriously, she has no friends and hasn't had sex in 20 years. She spends her time barking at my children (even when they aren't doing anything wrong), probing my life and ruining our good time with her miserable habits.

Me and the kids were all dancing around in the living room (to Snoop), I was highly enjoying myself and then she called. I thought, "DAMN!" and I felt bad for thinking it

She has no one else (for obvious reasons) and I will not desert her like my mother did

So I need your prayers to be peaceful and not let her get to me

thank you in advance

 

Leave her at home. Do it for the children

 

I've said a prayer.

What about trying to talk to her about something that might spark an interest with her. Maybe something about her childhood that you think she'd like to talk about. I know it might not sound like the greatest idea but maybe it would help derail her negativity.

Good luck. Let us know how the visit went.

 

You most certainly have my prayers.

 

I won't have to, she never shuts up due to the fact that she is so lonely.

She trys her best be a good person but she is just so emotionally fucked up that she doesn't realize her own negativity

Oh, and she's staying until tomorrow so.....that's why I need the prayers. The longer I have to be around her, the harder it is not to say something to hurt her.

Thanks for the prayer, Nuttybuddy, I'm sure it will help as I suspect you have alot of pull with the guy upstairs

 

you can take my prayers, I never use 'em
but seriously I have a "great"-aunt like that and I feel for you. It sucks

 

just love her to death, without any expectation it will change a thing.
smother her in love, may i do this, can i get you that, your hair looks lovely,
that is a very nice outfit, you look great, we are so glad you are here
what is new, how are your pets, anything i can do for you, etc.

but dont let yourself expect it to work
then it might.

 

dum-dum-dum-dum

shheeeeee'sssss herrrreeeeee

 

you don't understand how these people work. They make everything go against you.

 

I care what you think........

They do now, yes, but why not try some of the most effective and latest techniques that psychologists are using?
You are a quitter.
No matter how slim the odds of success, dont give up, never, and dont say
absolutely negative things about what will happen.
That is sure to make it so.
I said it might work.
at least it is something, not just criticism without better ideas.
look for the finish line, not at all the obstacles, if you want to get there.

and MissFontella,
I pray that you find a way to have peace and joy throughout her stay.
And that she enjoys her visit more than any other.
Bless you

 

wow that is pretty damn good. Why don't you tell me what color my panties are?
seriously I don't know about Ms. F's grandma but with my great-aunt it doesn't count as quitting just as realizing when it is impossible to win.

 

I guess you are no match for her. and never, ever will be.
So then go ahead and give up, ......you believe its not really quitting anyway.....
any clue how many impossible things people have done?
they are like water.

 

If it is impossible then a person can't do it. What you said makes no sense.

 

It is quitting but it is sensibly quiting. Why fight a battle you can't win?
I tried to but I really don't like you.
Fuck you

 

even using the term fighting is -ve
and watch Samurai the movie, regarding what to do if you cant win.
Henry ford, if you say you can or you say you cant you are right
it seems impossible i will ever respect your opinions, but i will keep trying to nevertheless.
Cuz quitters never win and winners never quit.
Love ya

 

"Cuz quitters never win and winners never quit"
Who origanally said that? cuz I disagree

 

they said planes were impossible
going to the moon was impossible
you are so pessimistic, there is little point in listing the hundreds more examples I am certain I could come up with.
the 4 minute mile, was physically impossible
David copperfield makes his living doing the impossible every day.
why not try to be a little more optimistic?

 

of course you disagree, cuz if not, you would not be able to continue to always quit.

I think it was Vince Lombardi

 

Ms Fontella Prayer

God give her the ability to see past the negative vibes her granny gives off, the peace to be able to deal with what she can't ingore and the aliby and common sense to get away with killing her and making sure the name on the insurance policy is payable to her if she cant handle it anymore!
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Sounds like my inlaws. *lol* May the obligations of the season be painless.
Candles are lit missfontella.