Ok so im sure that other people have the same fantasy but i cant help but tell my story and see what my options are. I've been with this girl for about 4 months now and the sex is great but i have this fantasy that i really want to act on. i want to watch and masturbate while my girl fucks another guy. ive been thinking about it for a while and want to act on it. im not sure how to really bring it up. I like my girlfriend alot but am not in love with her so i really wouldnt mind to much is she ended leaving me as a consequence but i cant help and want to act on these feelings. I also had sucess when one night we had sex and then after i went out with friends and left her in her room. the sex we great and i left we txted each other that night and i told her that i would be back and go in her room to sleep with her around 7 am but that night i left my friends house early and went to suprise my girl and walked into her room at 3 am. when i came in she was asleep with one of her man friends in her room! i couldnt believe i acted mad but i secretly wished i could have walked in on them fucking.. so close lol. of course i stayed with her cuz its mostly just a sexual connection between me and her, and i love her sex. i want her to have sex with other guys as long as i know about it or watch. any opionons on how to approach this topic? if any guys might be willing to help my fantasy i may consider it. i know she really loves me so i dont know how receptive she will be to this idea but who knows cuz im sure she did fuck that guy that night i was just to late to catch them
or you can ask her if she has any wild fantasy's she would like to try, if she does maybe you will be into what she suggests. even if so you can still say "i will do that if you do this for me."
I would talk to her, suggest your ideas. You say you know she loves you, but yet another man was in her room. Might I ask if he was in her bed?
yeah i caught her asleep with her friend in her bed it was a total turn on she said they watched a movie and just fell asleep but she claims to love me either way i think its a win win for me haha
I agree. Some women like it cause it makes them feel naughty, and they're getting sexual attention from more than 1 guy. Just ask your girl what's up, but just kinda lean into it.
You've been with her for 4-months. You don't want to watch a "girlfriend" fucking some other dude, you just want to see this girl fucking some other dude. Why even bother leading her on like this?
perhaps.. i also have this fantasy where during foreplay and sex i want her to tell me how her past boyfriends and other guys have fucked her and what they did to her
you could gently bring up a situation about someone you know,(make it up if you have to) saying that he lets her sleep with other men and likes it. see how she reacts to it first before you mention your fanasy. bingo, at least you will know her feelings,/thoughts and beliefs surrounding free sex. if you wanted to persuade her, you have to know how she feels first without implying anything. if she is strictly not having it, critisises/makes negative comments about them, then it will be tough i'm afraid.
I raised the idea with with my gf when she was talking about a sex session with her last bf. I said to her that I would to fuck her after he had fucked her. She replied "oh, but how? I don't see him anymore....maybe we try with someone else" It was that easy! We just have to find someone now so we can try it out.
I have watched an ex-gf fuck two other guys and me. We were all high on coke and it was super fun. I get off on these types of things also.
I don't have any experiences with it. But I don't see a problem with it. It's sort of along the lines of being swingers. It just depends if the girl is into it. Which is why it's a delicate subject, because some girls get completely offended by it.
there was only one girlfriend i had the conversation with. and it started after we heard it on tv or something and i said "i wouldnt want a 3 way with 2 women, its hard enough to please one." and she went on about how she would never have one she wants her man for herself. easy after that, i didnt have to think about it for the 3+ years after that when we were together, although on occasion i would make a joke and say we should have a 3way with the girl at the donut shop or something along those lines. she would always give the same reaction that she did the first time she made it clear that it would never happen.
I always found talking openly and honestly, about your wants and desires, will either get you closer to what you want, or send the lady off running to get away from you. Either way, you've been honest with yourself. Always be true to yourself. I met my wife in a hotutb, with her FB. After he and she ran it's course, she and I started to date, and lived together, then we married. We enjoy each other company, and I still just love when she and I entertain a couple or a lady for a nice long weekend of fun frolic.
msg for getatme19: Girls more likely to tell you that during foreplay and sex if they're under influence of a substance or two. Just sayin' ...
