Hi guys, I'm new to the forum but find the topics and posts intriguing and have a question of my own. In general, does it mean anything if a male in a relationship changes how frequent he masturbates, if sex is consistent and often? My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year now. The first 3 or 4 months, he didn't fap that often (it's not like he hid it and it wasn't hard to tell). We were only seeing each other a few times a week. However, I moved in with him a few months ago, and now he does it much more often now. Like every time I'm out of the house and he's there. But I'm confused because we have sex more often now. I just wanted to get your take on the situation. Also, don't get me wrong, I have no problem with him masturbating. I just don't know what to think of the jump in frequency of it is all. I mean, does it have to do with me you think? Or is there no real reason behind it at all? Thanks for your input.
If Your Not There, How In The Hell Do You Know This, Does The House Have CCTV, Or Does Your Boyfriend Keep A "Fapping Diary" Which You Sneek A Peek At... Cheers Glen.
I don't bug the house and no diary, although that would be kind of endearing. He just likes to do it in his underwear and I can tell if he did when he has a different pair on than in the morning. I always take a peek because it makes me horny when I see if they've changed I like to know that he's doing it too. But just want to know if there is any reason behind the change.
I Have A Brilliant Idea.:bulb:.Instead Of Asking People On The Other Side Of The World What Your Boyf Is Doing, Why Not Just Whisper Your Concerns In His Shell Like Ear....?? Just A Thought.... Cheers Glen.
It could be a hormonal spike....how old is he? If it is a hormonal spike I think time should correct the problem.
Perhaps he's just thinking about the time he has with you. That may well get him aroused to the point that he needs relief, and if he's getting it more frequently, then the mental stimulation is also going to be increased. He could also be taking precautions so as not to be prone to premature ejaculation later on. By masturbating to orgasm a while beforehand, it usually means that the man can last longer when it comes to the real thing (a useful tip for anyone about to lose their virginity).