Thinking about hooking up with a guy for the first time

Hey everybody, I'm finally seriously considering getting it on with a guy for the first time. I'm a 20y/o male and I'm starting at a new school at the end of the month. It's a community college where I only plan on spending a semester or two so its seems like the perfect place to explore my sexuality. Any advice for attracting or picking up guys without exactly outing myself?

 

Not unless you're close by :| Good luck

 

where you from?

 

Why would you believe that having some sex with other men invokes the risk of being outed? Most people are respectful of other people's choices to come out or not, especially if we are talking a NSA affair here.

A good approach would be both offer and request discretion. Equally so, try NOT to hit on the guys in the same class, who may feel threatened, challenged or whatever.

Check you usual web portals, hit a good, cruisy bar, and enjoy your life. Show basic respect towards the guys you mess around with, and more likely than not, you'll be repaid in the same coin...

KD

 

All of these are good ideas. It's really not hard to find someone local if you're just looking for a one time nsa session. There's plenty of websites catering to this (squirt.org, craigslist, gaydar, manhunt.net, etc), and there's also Grindr and Scruff for smartphones for gps-location hookups.

 

You can find non NSA people on Craig's list. I say many more than one would think. Bisexual people are in needed of companionship and safe contact. Besides many NSA happenings are with people in denial. You don't have to be Out. Just find the right open minded discrete person and talk and write and then meet for coffee in a place where you can talk freely.