Hello ladies... My girlfriend and I have experimented with the Jeff Styker dildo. It was fun for me to watch however she says once it was inserted it was like a "pole" was no "squishyness" about the dildo and when she tensed it wasn't comfy. I am wondering if the UR3 material would be better, as I have read a little about it and is a softer more life like material. Could anyone please confirm this for me? Thanks.