Why doesn't he kiss?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by fuzzylumpkins, Jan 17, 2013.

  1. fuzzylumpkins

    fuzzylumpkins Guest

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    Hey you guys!
    What could be the reasons behind a guy not grabbing the opportunity to kiss a girl?
    If they're lying down together.. he's caressing her and everything.. but when she brings herself closer to him.. he wouldn't kiss. Whats the matter?! :confused:
    "threw you the obvious, and you flew with it on your back" hmmph! x(
     
  2. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    - not attracted to her in that way
    - bad breath
    - never kissed a girl before
    - .....
     
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  4. TAZER-69

    TAZER-69 Listen To Your Heart! Lifetime Supporter

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    Likes boys?
     
  5. fuzzylumpkins

    fuzzylumpkins Guest

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    hahah :p
    Is it possible that he din't want to kiss her because she was drunk as fuck.. and had puked a little ? :p
    Also.. If he doesn't feel for her that way.. why would he ask her to lie down next to him and caress her like that..?
     
  6. fuzzylumpkins

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    He just got out of a long relationship.. Its been quite some time since he's been a little close to the new girl.. also told her once that he loves to chill with her and sometimes reaally feels something..
     
  7. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    Because friends are sometimes physically close.
    But don't kiss and all that, obviously.


    Ugh.
    He probably thinks you are disgusting.
     
  8. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    yeah, that'll usually do it.
     
  9. fuzzylumpkins

    fuzzylumpkins Guest

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    Come on. not that shallow.
    disgusting maybe for that moment..
    but .. how to find out if he wanted to.. and maybe din't because of the disgusting situation..?
     
  10. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    Well by asking him, obviously. But you are not going to do that.
     
  11. fuzzylumpkins

    fuzzylumpkins Guest

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    teheh :p obviously ..
    But if i do ask him.. :gorgeous: is it that big a deal?
     
  12. babyjay

    babyjay Senior Member

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    maybe he wants you to kiss him. some guys like girls who come on to them.

    and perhaps he was distracted by your body? and also, maybe he was being respectful since you were drunk/had vomit breath.

    hey, why not just handle your alcohol better, and get what you want.
     
  13. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    Haha, that's hilarious! Do you really have to ask that...
     
  14. fuzzylumpkins

    fuzzylumpkins Guest

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    teheh :p Thank you :D
    all you guys, thanks for your help ;D
     
  15. jamgrassphan

    jamgrassphan Get up offa that thing Lifetime Supporter

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    Let's see (in order of likelihood):

    Afraid his breath is stank, or his breath is stank,
    Afraid her breath is stank, or her breath is stank,
    Afraid of getting the awkward face turn - despite evidence to the contrary because it's happened before and he no longer trusts his judgement,
    He's not feeling "it" or into you,
    Afraid of apparent sore on her lip - or rumor of past sores/kooties on lip, Has girlfriend/fiance/wife, doesn't want caressing to escalate into full blown cheating,
    Has dirty underwear, stanky drawers, std, and/or micropenis.
    Is deathly afraid of her boyfriend/fiance/husband.
    You are, by all appearances, asleep, unconscious, or dead (which is a good sign, because it means he is scrupulous).
    He is aware that you have terrifying psychic and/or magical powers and have set a precedence of using them to deadly effect on people (lovers in particular) that have upset you in the past.
     
  16. fuzzylumpkins

    fuzzylumpkins Guest

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    Maybe. Maybe not.
    I should just chill the fuck out.could be anything.. Maybe i should sit down and think, After all.. I know him better than any of you :p so maybe i should think deeper.... try and figure out what his reason could be...
    though jamgrassphan i think the first 2 reasons.. and the second last could be it..
     
  17. Bonkai

    Bonkai Later guys

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    Honestly just ask him - if he likes you, you'll definitely get a straight answer else he'll flirt around it. Men don't play games if the lady is straight forward 99% of the time, go for it!
     
  18. fuzzylumpkins

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    I think so too! :iagree:
    I don't wish to dwell upon this matter much anyway.. i need to know.. and that's the best way to find out.
    Thanks :D
     
  19. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    I like the girls who do & hate the girls that don't,
    I like the girls who say they will , but then they say they wont,
    But the girls I like best of all, & I hope you say I'm right,
    Is the girl who says she never will but looks as thou she might.


    So some expect you to read their minds & think you can but can't,
    So you wait & see if they will make the move , or they just use other body language instead,
    And then they just roll over & make out they are acting dead.
     
  20. Hedgeclipper

    Hedgeclipper Qiluprneeels Nixw

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    I can't do it. It's just extremely hard for me for some reaons, but what a rush though. Like I've been in many situations where it was obvious I was supposed to kiss the girl and I just couldn't bring myself to do it for some reason no matter how much I want to. What can i say, I'm shy.

    to be honest, I don't understand the replies in this thread. People responded bad breath and gay before just simple shyness, which is the most likely answer. Is nobody else here a little shy when it comes to kissing girls and making moves? This is the internet.
     
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