I dont know if this is the right place to put this: Anyone know what the lowest age to get one in Ontario is? I talked to my doctor and he said he won't touch me until I'm 25(thats just him though). I want it done NOW, just to get it out of my way...while im not working, so it wont affect me. Yes I realize its permanent. I DO NOT want kids EVER, so dont say you'll change your mind, etc...because I WILL NOT. Thanks for any help Whoo! My 400th Post!!
Yes, I know it is lol...thats the reason I want it done...I dont want kids. No I have not had sex yet....but I just cant see myself with kids in the future...I dont want them to go through the harsh life I have...+ I'll be too busy working to worry about them. I like my life the way it is. AND YES I AM SURE!!!!
95% of vascetomies are reversible within the first 10 years, so there's not a very good arguement against it because of permanancy.
Yeah, just look around, I'm sure someone will do it for you. I don't think the rules are rigid, they're just worried about wishy-washy types suing later on for their own mistakes. It's worth the fight to get it done. Happy hunting!
Yes, Whispers, I am SURELY SURE. I'll look around for a doctor that could do it. Thanks for the suggestion. I thought only your family doctor would do it.
I know you say you're SURELY SURE, but oen goes through a lot of changes throughout their late teens, early-mid twenties. I'm serious. It took until I was 30 to realize that I want to have children in my life. I've always liked kids, as long as they weren't mine. Now I'm wanting my own. When I was 20, I told myself that I'd never want to get married. I've had a fiance since then. What does that say? People change. Just hold off until you're 25 and see how you feel. Besides, I've kinda gone through a similar medical procedure and it can be a bit uncomfortable for a little while.
i've known guys who at your age said no children, absolutely not. he doesn't like kids ans swore he would never want them.... ever. as he gets older and passes his mid twenties its starting to hit him that one day it might be nice to have kids of his own (he tried to play it cool about passing on his genes and such), but don't take all of your choices away while you're still young.
SB - I was in exactly the same boat... never wanted kids - at 10, 18, 25, 31... I first asked my doctor @ 20 as well - only to get the same answer as you. Plus, got the "oh, you'll change your mind" speech more times than I can count. Yes, there's a chance I could change my mind - the same chance that those WITH kids wil change their mind well after they've cracked out a few puppies. There are far too many folks out there who didn't really want kids but had them because "that's just what you do - get a job, get married, have kids...". And this one - "What if you meet a great girl and she wants kids?" - WTF? Are they suggesting I should consider having kids in order to better my chances with some girl? What a horrid reason for becoming a father! If she really wants kids, and I really don't, she'd have to find someone else - as much as it may hurt to let her go, I'd have to - it would only be fair to her. Thankfully, the great girl that I met doesn't want kids either - and we were just married 2 months ago. I have the vasectomy done a few years back - just look for a willing urologist (your GP can direct you) - and you're well past the age of consent, so keep looking. I had mine done in Toronto - and FYI, very easy procedure - I was back to work that afternoon, and only had mild discomfort (felt like I had been sacked a day earlier - just a little twinge here and there). A couple of days and everything - everything - was back to normal. Plus - and this is one of the biggest bonuses - no more contraceptives! Certainly adds to the spontaneousness...
Wow, its good to see someone actually thinks the way I do. I have my life planned out in every little aspect, and it does not involve kids. For the most part, it doesn't involve a g/f until I'm like 30/35. I know what I want out of life, and I'm going to get it. If I was with a girl and she wanted kids, I would let her go as well, just to be fair to her...I would pretty much tell her right from the start of a relationship that I dont want kids to see if she still wants to go through with it. I'm gonna go talk to my doc again tomorrow. Thanks for the advice..If I knew how to give rep, I would lol. Oh and for the pain, don't worry. Had my fair share of problems in that area. I know what pain is all about. :&
Why don't you just use a condome while the sex, don't do things you might later regrate. At vasectomy, it is possible, that you get everything repared, and you can masturbate again, with spunk commin out, but it is much more difficult to make kids! Well, they are not my balls, but well, if i were you, i wouldn't do it!!
