love hurts like hell

Although i may need to work on my self esteem a bit.

 

I know how that can feel but the make up sex is usually pretty good. :daisy: Just think about when an argument comes up try to listen and validate your partners feelings and try to express your feelings in a considerate manner. Usually it is defensiveness and lack of listening for both partners to have a fight.

 

I know, usually by the end, a fight is only 10% about the original topic haha. It's good advice and I'm trying to do that, but sometimes it's hard. Maybe I'm not mature enough yet to handle it that well.

And we can't have make up sex because it's a long distance relationship .

 

Oh long distance, that makes it difficult. I am disabled and I have homemakers who clean my house. One of the young homemakers that has worked for me was in a similar situation to yours and it hurt her a lot when they would argue. Eventually she found someone in town and left him. But she would still sway back and forth about the long distance one because she loved him the most.

 

Yeah, it's difficult, you can't cuddle afterwards and make things better.
Luckily for me, this won't be long distance for long, I'm going back home soon

 

love and fear can not exist in the same place

 

love and life both have ups and downs. a flat line in a hospital is not a good thing.