Questions about LDR and pervert lures my gf when he knows she's lesbian

Hi girls,

In this thread, it contains two situations that i hope you girls can provide me feedback (though you have rights not to read or reply ^^). Your opinion would be much appreciated. Thank you.

Firstly, some of you may have seen my first *super long* thread complaining about a guy who sexually (verbal) harrassed my gf and many guys out there are after my lovely gf. We had trust problem (mainly because im too jealousy and low self esteem), until the day i confronted my gf that why didnt she stop that pervert talking about his sex life to her and that he was being irrespect to me by asking my gf whether she prefers dildo or cock, and request my gf to tell him about our sex life, many more.

We then had a serious talk, really serious. She said she doesn't even care how the pervert was trying to lure her or make her realise the importance of cock. What she wants is me. She said she was kinda regret because she talked a little about our sex life to that pervert which is a friend she trusted. Why men think women must need cock? They don't understand gay relationship. Why does he do bad things when the girl he had crush on is being with another? Just because he felt that he lose to a girl? Ego?

Secondly, i also mentioned in the thread that i will be going back to my home country for a few months (as we are both studying at oversea), i used to worry about trust issue. Now I am back here for two weeks. Surprisingly, we are all good and even closer! I cut down a lot worries about who are those guys that contacting my gf or what she is been doing when i am not there (still a little though). we are very far apart (8 hours difference). I have to sleep very very late (usually next morning) to talk to her through Skype etc. I am not complaining but i think this distance is a test of our love. I am much positive now compared to the last 1.5years. I don't understand why and confused. Does some couples argue more when they live together? Does this means I should keep a distance from my gf so that I wont take control of her? Or did i just changed naturally?

I wish to keep continuing to be like this. We both always stand in each other's shoes and think when we do things, we respect each other's decisions and many more that I supposed they are a plus in our relationship. Even though i have those questions above, i am now feeling grateful that we are both very sweet and close even we are far apart.

 

Men are beasts. They can't control the urge to shove their genitals into any hole. So yea, there will always be *ssholes that'll try to seduce an attractive girl, even if she isn't interested.

Now, distance has advantages and disadvantages. The lack of physical contact and touch may frustrate both of you and freeze your relationship.

A little bit of jealousy is present in every relationship, but it's healthy, as long as it doesn't result in controlling, spying and paranoia.

It shows that you care about her and are afraid of losing her. You don't want to be replaced. It's normal.

I believe that you didn't change. You just stopped being suspicious since you can't know what she is doing.

You should be careful. Some distance isn't bad. It gives your partner time and space.

But it's still no solution to your problems! Talk to her whenever you feel jealousy or any other negative emotions. Communication is the key.

Greetings,
numberphile