What feels better, thrusting in and out of your pussy, or having the guy stay inside, and focusing more on rotating and grinding against you? I know for me and I assume most men, thrusting feels better, and of course it looks better. But I was reading this article that said porn teaches you the wrong way to have sex because it is mostly about long hard thrusts in and out, which is what makes it great to look at (and it makes that hot flesh on flesh smacking sound), but for women it's not the best way to stimulate them through intercourse.
At some point people are going to understand that porn is like the WWE. It's entertainment. Yes, people are really having sex just like the wrestlers are really getting hit with chairs, etc. But it's all for show. It's a performance. Doesn't translate very well to reality.
For me good sex is so much more than a guy thrusting or grinding in my pussy that the answer to your your question for me, at least, is neither makes much of a difference. With all of the different ways to explore and stimulate each other's bodies, vaginal intercourse probably represents about 1% of what turns me on during sex.
Sometimes I let my wife take over & she does what she feels comfortable with or likes the most. She positions herself in anyway she likes. If she wants her clit stroked, she soon puts my hand there or where ever she wants it placed.
Every woman is different well so they say..... I beg to differ if you know what your doing with the woman she is coming, squirting and loosing the ability to use her legs. Its not about the thrust, while a lot of women enjoy it unless you have a desensitised penis or just the stamina of Hercules all that thrust is gonna get you is a quick happy ending. (maybe longer the second time around) As a general rule I've never come across a woman that hasn't enjoyed her Clit being played with (some take a little persuasion) or her G spot massaged (Yes they do exist) its like gold you just gotta know where your going to find it... As previously said the penis penetration only accounts for 1% of sexual encounters unless your just being selfish... So find her buttons and push them. Different positions will give you different pleasure zones. Aim to please her and yours will be so much better. :-D
I totally enjoy thrusting more! Especially from behind. When he grabs hold of my hips and just goes at it. Makes his balls smack off my clit. Ugh, makes me scream every time.
