So today I'm feeling kinda sick, like a cold or something, and I'm almost in my period so I'm like super tired and cranky and with lots of abdominal pain and I don't feel like being with people or leaving the house. So I told my boyfriend that we could be together tomorrow because today I was feeling like that. (Note: we hang out every day) And he became all upset and kept insisting aand told we didn't have to leave the house. He could come over and I said that I wasn't feeling like it but I said again that we could have lunch tomorrow... Just today I was feeling like it. He became super upset and then asked me if I was going to tumblr this night ( he has some complex when I go there... I didn't quite understand...) I said that yes, maybe. I'd see American horror story and then maybe I'd go there. And he started getting all upset and saying that I wasn't going to be with him so I could be on tumblr and that if I went there (on tumblr) he would never forgive me and for me not to bother talking to him because he would not forgive me... wtf o.o Help me! How can I deal with him? We've been together for 2 years and I think that I give him bad habits because sometimes he is so clingy and thinks everything has to go his way... Please help...
Dang......ew, ew. Possessive and controlling. Even after 2 years, he hasn't become more settled into this. I would encourage him to be more independent. It is unattractive as he is, and he needs to look at himself through the eyes of others.
I mean I'm not doing anything wrong right? I should not make my self pretend I have patience to be with him (or anybody else) if I'm not right? How can I deal with him? Even if tonight I go to tumblr how do I deal with his anger? (the thing when he told he would never forgive me etc...)
he sounds like a ridiculous immature douche. unfortunately, that is every trait that women find irresistible, so you won't be able to make yourself do anything about it even if you wanted to.
He's manipulating you with his "lack of forgiveness" and only hurting himself if he really follows through. Hit it head on. Be direct that you'll take your risks because you don't have to give up your rights to do as you please.
thats very clingy and immature...especially the whole tumblr thing, thats a weird thing to be jealous and insecure about... if I were you I would just put my foot down. Tell him sometimes you'll have days where you just want to be by yourself and its just something he's going to have to accept. no way. women don't like cling. If you were to say an immature douchebag that ignores you I would agree..but an immature douchebag that wants to be up your ass 24/7 is not attractive to any female
yeah, i was really referring more to the immature douchebag than the clinginess. but isn't that still one of the things that changes once the relationship begins? ignore her until you're official, and then you have to turn it around and suddenly become whipped?
no no. You presesnt two extremes. A man that is attentive and self-assured is all we really want. Probably that's what men want from women too.
nah, you still gotta ignore her a little to keep her on her toes I'm being facetious, although I'm sure both techniques work on clingy/immature women. calgirls right, for a sane guy to keep a sane woman happy they both just need to be confident and, well, sane.
He needs to learn to give you space. I love my alone time. I would not put up with a lover invading that space.
Uh, what happened on tumblr? Did you post a nude or something? Why is he freaking out about it so bad? Do you sit there on tumblr whenever you're supposed to be spending time with him? Find out what his issue is. Or if it's not worth it just dump the jerk. Oh and plus, to show him how much period cramps suck, kick him in the balls and see if he wants to hang out with you and go do stuff.
Is tumblr the new hangout spot for the up and coming generation? I'm so glad I never got hooked on Facebook.
I think it's one of the top 5 popular social media sites out there. But I don't think it's the only one. Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, Reddit, and Instagram are kind of in, with mixed feelings about facebook in general. Then Youtube and Google plus fits in there somewhere.
