Nothing feels good for her, and she has no interest in sex anymore because of it. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what we can try? Do any other woman have experience with that happening?
Does she feel aroused when you or she stimulates herself or is she just 'maybe' going thru menopause & thats her way of dealing with it?
How old is she? If she is around my age it is not an unusual thing. If your relationship is not just based on sex you could always masturbate. Depression can cause lack of interest in sex as well. I agree with others it does not hurt to check a Dr.