I am currently living with a friend of mine. It's a couple and they have been letting me live with them because I am in pretty serious financial trouble at the moment. We share one room to sleep in and I have my own twin bed and they share a double. I've been there for a month know and the couple has sex once a week while I am there. They are quite discrete about it but I do "know" what's happening. I asked them if they'd like to work something out where I was out at certain times. They were like "nah, don't watch." So, the situation now is that they fuck and I just ignore it and they ignore me beating off like 3x a week. It's not erotic anymore it's just kinda there... Are we going to end up really fucked up or is this just life.
I don't think so. They encouraged me to come live with them and give up my own place which actually has worked out well. I am now back on top of my finances and am digging myself out of the debt. I'm also not living with them for free; I pay a little bit plus I do all the cooking.
If they are cool with it maybe they want a threesome.....next time he finishes jump up and say something subtle like "my turn" haha
Nah based on what the OP said about him not watching, I don't think this couple likes that kind thing. @michaelson, you should make a game plan for getting yourself out of the situation your in. Where you are now is good for the short term but if you stay too long you'll overstay your welcome. I give this arrangement 4 months before you start feeling pressure to leave.
Right. I do want to get out of that soon. The couple offered to possibly split a larger place with me once their lease is up in a few months. That's my goal to be able to afford my half of that arrangement... Which would be cheaper than my own place. I get along quite well with them, so that would be great.
Sounds like a great arrangement then. If I were you I'd go for it if that is indeed how comfortable everybody is. If you don't like hearing them, earplugs and a blindfold things are pretty easily obtainable. People who work the graveyard shift use them all the time during the day so they can get some sleep.
I truly do not feel uncomfortable anymore, nor is it erotic to hear them. At first it was awkward then it was sorta a taboo thrill. Now that its happened a few times I don't feel either and I don't feel any different about masturbating (except I obviously don't masturbate while they're fucking) with them right there.
It seems like just life to me. To be frank, I think it's kind of how it should be in my opinion. And I'd go so far as to say, who cares if it was erotic? They are aware that you are aware of their having sex in the same room, while you are aware that they are aware of your jerking off in the said room. I don't see a problem there. I just think your current living arrangement shouldn't be a permanent one, just from the financial standpoint. And I can tell you're already aware of this so, again, I don't see a problem. All the best.
Perhaps if the OP were dating, the time they spent away from the shared apartment would provide the couple with some privacy. Its not only sex. How much privacy does this couple have to fight with each other, discuss their own finances or just to not see your face. To turn on their stupid music that they know you hate and are too polite to impose on you. You found an emergency place to crash. Now get the heck out and let them be a couple. They made a commitment to each other. Don't let your emergency wreck their relationship.
Nah, it isn't fucked up, but it isn't life either. I'm curious though.....there are just too many ways for them to have privacy, and for you to jack off privately, yet you all decide to do it in the same dark room between the hours of 10-7.
