I havea pool, and for while I've been wanting to skinny dip. I have twice before, but never whilst anyone else has been home. My mum actually skinny dipped today, so I think she'll be okay with it, but I just wanted to get some advice on asking her if I can or not, because I;m not actually sure how she will react.
I'd say if she's nude, sh can hardly get upset with you for being nude! Go for it. If it were me, I'd rather be IN the pool when she first saw me, to lessen the surprise, but just go for it! If you happen to be in there nude when, say, she gets home... can't see a problem with that. Maybe keep a towel nearby, just in case... on second thoughts, no, just be fully nude and with nothing to cover up with, that way you won't be tempted to! JD
i kind of agree with jd, plan it so she "accidentally" sees you and then its easy to judge how upset she will be with you doing it. i cant imagine she would have any problem if she is doing it also...but this would be the safest way to know how she would react without coming out and saying "do you mind if i skinny dip" and really doing that wouldnt be bad but i dont know how open your family is...but you do.
Thanks for the advice. I think that really I am afraid of how she would react, so I might well try the way that you sugested
Annyoingly I just found out that my Mum is having friends over today, so I can't skinny dip ubtil they leave.
Well In That Case There Is No Problem, Just Wait Till She Is Skinny Dipping, Walk To The Edge Of The Pool And Say, How's The Water, Then Take Off Your Gear And Dive In.... It's Not As If She Hasn't Seen You Naked Before, Don't Forget, She Gave Birth To You...:baby:.?? Cheers Glen.
i have come to hate that saying i used to hear it all the time along with "i used to change your diapers" back when i was a kid up until i was a young teen. then when i was finally comfortable with my body and would just walk out of the bathroom naked i would hear. whats wrong with you put some clothes on. although the last couple times i was seen naked by my mom she didnt say anything but those times are rare and far between now.
Actually, most of the time when she is swimming, she wears a suit, this is the second time in four years I've known her to skinny dip.
TeagysCarbon......that is the second time that "YOU ARE AWARE OF".She sure wouldn't be upset if you skinnydip as long as no one else is around beside her,just to be sure.Give it a try,you won't regret it!
maybe she was wearing a skin colored suit those two times. how close did you get? and did she know you saw her? these questions would make it easier to know without asking.
Your mom is likely going to be okay with it as long as your pool is is secluded. Why would she care anyway? I live in the country if anyone sees me skinny dipping they are trespassing. My wife and I do it all the time. We have even had a few couples parties where drinking was involved and some of the guests enjoyed a skinny dip. Nothing like it on a home humid summer night.
Damn, weather must be really nice over there right now for you to do that. If you ain't cold, GO FOR IT! And yeah, I think you're overthinking things with your mom, man.
yeah, i've been under the impression that australian summers are very hot. if it's not warm enough to swim in midsummer, then getting the pool in the first place seems like a pretty bad idea. i still don't see why she can't just skinny dip when mom's not home if she's that worried about it.
What's good for the mother, is good for the son/daughter... Just tell her you'd like to be liberated too and swim au naturel. It would be bizarre if she took offence at the suggestion given that she is in on the lark too. Mother+daughter/son even better. All in the family!
Late husband and I would skinny dip in our pool in summer, usually in the evenings when it was too hot to sleep. That was when the kids were little, so we'd sneak out so as not to disturb them, didn't want them spoiling our fun, haha. I've since told them all, hehe, their reactions have been priceless, daughters both 'eeeewww, Mum, too much information' whereas my son was 'Oh, ok.' I've moved to a new place with no pool but planning on going skinny dipping out at the lake some time in the next few days with a girlfriend who loves au naturel too.