Frustrated

Hi everyone I am from Saginaw Michigan and have had a tuff time finding someone and don't know what to do. I have thought about getting a prostitute but I don't like the way that works nor want the legal part looming over me. If anyone is interested in a good time and is near me or has an option for me to meet people near me that I don't have to pay monthly for an add my credit card information I would appreciate it.

 

same here. but then i don't like the way getting a girlfriend works either.

 

Why not go into a bar or club to pick up a girl for a one night stand?

 

I work full time and go to school as well so it makes it hard to meet girls. A lot of people have told me just go to the bar but i hate bars and I am not much of a drinker.

 

You do not have to drink alcohol. Order a bottle of water for yourself, then get the girl drunk.

 

i think going to the bar to pick up a drunk girl falls under "don't like the way that works" at least as much as picking up a prostitute.

you have to go out to a loud place where drunk people act annoying hours after you already want to be asleep, and then put on a huge show to convince some annoyingly drunk girl that you're somebody that you're not, so that there's a slight chance she'll come home with you and have bad puke-breath sex with you.

 

You said you go to school. HELLO!! School is by far the easiest place to meet girls IMO. At the university level you almost have to talk to your classmates. Honestly I don't know how you can't meet new people at school unless you sit in the back corner and never say anything to anybody. And even then you have to hope you don't have any group projects, in class activities, etc.

If you can't meet people in an environment like school where people are going to automatically have something in common with you, then I doubt you can meet people anywhere.

 

How is Saginaw pronounced?, like sag-in-awe or does it sound like it rhymes with vagina.

Either way its funny

 

Don't they have Craigslist in Saginaw?

 

Think about the kind of person you'd like to meet, and go to places like that. If you want someone quiet who reads a lot, frequent coffeeshop/bookstores. If you want someone who gets drunk and loud, visit bars. Finding girls is the easy part.

The hard part is talking to them. The hardest part about that is actually getting up, walking over, and talking. We've trained ourselves societally to leave other people alone. Break free of that and engage them in conversations, much as you would your friends.

 

Talk with your classmates!

 

Find some online Internet Chat Rooms, such as ICQ, or PalTalk.

I've had results from both.