Bare chested males always viewed in a sexual manner?

thank you muchly, i've liked some of your posts i've seen around.

i was doing a burlesque performance, and i love doing them, so i was definitely having fun

thanks for being nice to me, guys !:daisy:

 

I do have to concentrate more when I read you post babyjay

 

well i imagine thats why i do perform like that. people keep asking me to, so i keep doing it

 

A man with no shirt is obviously not always sexual.

However, I don't think that's really what this thread is all about.

Guys who take every chance they get to take of their shirt, and show off their 'bodacious bod' to the world.....well they come off like a total dousche bag. Like, "Hey look at me I'm so sexy and better than everyone else." They think they are Gods gift to women and its obnoxious. They even did an episode of Seinfield about it....Elane dumped a guy because he was taking his shirt off every five minutes. I'm not saying you're that guy. But that is the impression you're giving to a lot of people here. It's not that its perceived as sexual, but arrogant and obnoxious.

I see a double standard though. Because who doesn't like a topless woman? I know I do. It's not thought of the same by anyone.

 

I have zero interest in a man without his shirt on besides my boyfriend. I don't find it sexual at all unless I am already interested in the person sexually for other reasons. My boyfriend totally has a gut but I still find him way sexier without a shirt on than any other man is no matter how muscled they are.

 

I think you are sexy.

 

Well, I’m glad you at least acknowledge that. I for one find it amazing how people will form “assumptions” about someone based solely on a sig pic.

 

It wasn't solely on you pic. If you didn't have a pic up you would still come off as being very arrogant

 

People who are attention-seeking don't always have to be driven by arrogance. They often are, but not always.

I sometimes think that they are needy and lacking in self-esteem, self-love, and self-approval. It's like their opinion of themselves doesn't carry enough weight, enough value; they need someone outside themselves to tell them they look nice (or whatever).

Not saying that's the case with xxaru. In his case it could be nothing more than he likes the way he looks and thinks others will appreciate him showing them his upper-body, which mostly equates to arrogance, or ignorance of how to present yourself to others.

Or someone who comes on, wanting people to hold focus on a particular image, could be a different gender, or someone less than attractive...someone jerking everyone around with pics that aren't even of them.

How can you put an reliance in pics you see on the internet? How can you really even take seriously anything you are told on the internet? It's entertainment but you have to keep that in mind no matter how hard people are pushing and selling whatever their particular "hook" is.

 

I'm still hoping for the suit pic. I bet you're devilishly handsome in a black or charcoal single breasted suit

 

Business men that wear suits and conventional haircuts, or "churchy" old men in suits don't do it for me, but every time I see one of my long-haired guys in a suit I just melt from the heat!

 

Mmmm...long haired men in suits... :drool

 

I have a black leather suit coat...

 

They Don't Come Any Hotter Than A Man With Dreadlocks

And Barefoot Wearing A Suit...*double drool*:drool5::drool5:



Cheers Glen.

 

Thank goodness I will not have that nasty drool any where near me. Who knows where that mouth of yours has been.

 

Okay! You're in!

Yes, that's a hot look too!

 

Put it in a sig pic, or you're just all talk. :biker:

 

So in other words, you dont like seeing guys that are hotter than your boyfriend with their shirts off, cos it gives you warm funny feelings in your undies and you feel sooooooo guilty for never having those same kind of feelings for your boyfriend who is such a great guy and is always there for you

 

A blast from the past, 1991, fruck, shit is 22 years old

I'm too sexy for my cat, too sexy for my cat, for pussy, for pussy cat

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=39YUXIKrOFk"]Right Said Fred - I`m Too Sexy (The Original) - YouTube

 

that bare chests are viewed in a sexual manor for either gender is entirely a cultural thing.