I think a few women want to be like them. But very very few can actually be like that. Where a guy just obeys, even without noticing he is. Enticed, but afraid. Like an inevitability.
Not exactly, I mean straps you whip someone's ass with :devil: Though most of my bondage cuffs are leather too, and thongs or strips of leather do make a very primal restraint
One thing I like about leather is that it can mean so many things. Like a 2nd skin for its user, like a powerful beast. And the smell... Also it can restrain, cause pain, signify control and it just screams to be stroked. Its like leather can pervade a whole room, have its own force.
Restraining meaning there is nowhere to run. The pain of leather paddles, straps, crops and most excruciating of all - the bullwhip.