In YOUR opinion, do love and sex go hand and hand? I know that some people believe that you should be in love to have sex with someone to have sex with them, while some others believe that you don't have to be in love to have sex with someone. I'm NOT talking about the difference between fucking and making love. You can be in love and fuck them and not have it be about love. Just fishing for YOUR opinions.
I don't know what you're asking here. Are you asking if you can be in love and not have sex? Cause you already said you know the reverse is true. Question just doesn't make sense to me.
it's probably a good idea to be in love to have sex with someone to have a baby together, but if all you want is to have sex with someone to have sex with someone, some sexual attraction should really be good enough. i'm also really not sure what you're asking. you can have sex with anyone, although it's probably better if you're in love.
no. like i said before, in love is preferable, but if two people who aren't in love want to have sex, that's perfectly fine.
In all honestly, I say no too. But I'm just curious if there's anybody here that would say yes, and why they think so.
Really it is different for everybody! Some can and prefer to just have sex without the love and I do totally understand that. For myself the best sex does come from someone I am in love with. When I have a real emotional connection with someone nothing can match the passion I feel with them whether we are making love or fucking. I have the option of some of both in my life right now, because we sometimes bring others in for play time, but nothing yet has came close to matching what we have one on one with each other. There is something always missing for me with random sex, but it can still be fun for sure.
At the time, I thought I was in love with two of the people I've slept with. I figured differently later on. One person I've slept with, I didn't even like, let alone love. I kind of feel like I need to be in love to be relaxed enough to get off during sex and I regret every day of my life that I didn't have sex with my first love, regardless of his feelings for me. I don't think you have to have sex with love, but god, the chemistry we had, I now kick myself for not giving into him. lol
Absolutely not. For me there is no correlation, sex is about sexual attraction and no need of any emotional attachment.
Nope, love is not necessary to have sex. But, big but! Younger people should be very selective about how they get their first experiences. It's not easily understood by those in their developing sexuality that there isn't always meaningfulness. The emotional effects are difficult to deal with. Later in life, we have such a different perspective, and ability to cope, and can make better decisions about what works for our own individuality.
They are better together, but either one is not bad. Love without sex would be weird, unless there is a physical disability.
As a guy I probably could physically have sex with any girl I am attracted to without the love connection, as I'm sure the mechanics of it will work just fine. However I am not mentally or emotionally comfortable having sex with someone I don't care about.
Oh come on really Younger ppl should be selective..... that's the fun part of being younger. Life's lesson's are learned from mistakes as well as good memories. Live, Love, Learn You don't need to be in love for sex. But just make sure it's safe sex right boys and girls..........
I waited for love before I had sex and it was a little disappointing to be honest. Maybe there was to much build up with high expectations of what I was about to experience but I found that I was in love with a girl that I didn't connect with sexually. I'm still waiting for another girl that I care about before I go again but I have my doubts about it. Is it worth the abstinence. Do es anyone have any thoughts about the situation. Would I be better off just having a few no strings attached sexual relatioships?
