I am currently bisexual, but I haven't really ever had anal sex with a man, I really want to try both bottom and top, top isn't that big of a deal but bottom is. I have played with dildos in the past, but many have been to firm, there is no give in the head and the ridges tear me, I have taken to using simmering with mild texture and a low profile head, but I wolf like to play with something closer to the real thing. Ladies, gentlemen is there any toys out there that are more realistic in feel, I don't care if its blue or how it looks just close to an actual penis. adult stores don't like it when you pike their toys much.
Poly, you should probally try a product like anal eze and go to slumberpartiesbytammyrivera.com and search for ICE. Ice is very realistic and firm but bendable, also has suction cup bottom to prevent it from moving. Hope this helps.