Let me ask this

Do men get ED if they are trying too hard to please? Or maybe they are trying too hard to impress? Or trying to win the girl? Or satisfy a girl with a high sex drive?

I guess that would be called performance anxiety.

 

i'm sure it has happened.

 

men that don't try ta impress are always the most impressive ones

 

Yup. The mind can be a little killjoy.

 

Sure. It's the most common cause!

 

No. You either have a problem with ED or you don't. I told you to give them the little blue pill and all your problems should go away. What's the hold up?

 

Lack of cooperation or timing......seriously timing. One guy kind of anticipated it, and took some cialis (?) but not enough. I'm confident he won't let it happen again.

Fuck, I hate feeling like I put pressure on them.

 

Can be lots of different reasons for men to have this problem! I know for myself the only time I have had any issues with it is when I am just not feeling a connection with the person I am with. Never had the problem with someone I really wanted to be with yet.

 

The topic title is terrible, but I'll jump in anyway.

Yes, definitely, the mind can easily make an erection impossible. When I was young, I had terrible ED, but only the first time I was with a woman. I was so very concerned about pleasing her, my heart would be racing, I made it so important in my mind, I was so fearful that I would fail, that I couldn't get hard. Several times, I was fortunate enough to be invited back for a second night, and when that happened I didn't worry so much about being rejected, and then I could get it up.

 

Absolutely. As soon as the slightest doubt sets in in his mind about his performance, it will begin to affect him psychologically.

 

Yes - without any doubt whatsoever, as nerve impulses travel from the brain to the penis. The largest sex organ is the brain - and any "negative" thought can cause ED, as can stress, feeling under pressure, worried, trying too hard etc.

If the man can get hard at certain times, such as blow job, and then keep going flaccid - especially at the point of penetration - then the problem is likely psychological rather than organic.

If he can't get an erection at all, no morning wood etc, then the problem is organic.

 

can only speak for me....only time i cant get a boner its cause of a flaw in[or on]the woman

 

ouch......I hope my flaws are minor

 

i got out a fuckin magnifying glass...i cant find any on you

i said ''for me''

i'm sure in your case the dude was so messed up by your awesome body that he just had a meltdown

 

Yea, sure....but thanks.

Um, what kind of "flaw" are you speaking of? You mean like moles, or bald, or giggly, or bad teeth, or stuff more like dumb, boring, arythmic, greedy, confrontational.

 

Only if there's an issue there to begin with.

 

It does not have to be an organic (medical) problem to cause ED. It can be purely psychological - and if psychological then there is an issue there - whether the issue is performance anxiety, being put off by the woman, stress, pressure, or anything that is occuring mentally, so I am unsure what you mean?

http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/will-i-last-the-psychology-of-erectile-dysfunction/

Even watching too much porn can cause ED - which again is psychological.

 

That post got 3 unlikes for some reason? Even though it is the answer

I've never tried the blue version, and have only tried Cialis once, but fuck me dead....if and guy has trouble with ED just use that shit, you could beat it with a stick and it wont go down

 

it is misleading calgirl......i wasnt really serious...

ive never not ben able to get an erection

lucky i guess...my ex used to joke that i get a hard-on when the bus goes by........so i decide before i need a hard-on that ''this girl is messed up ''and i bow out

 

Is that not what I just said? If you have a serious mental problem that plagues you with ED, that would certainly denote having an issue wouldn't it?

ED doesn't just pop up out of nowhere at random. Just like you don't wake up one morning and all of a sudden you're obese, you don't wake up one morning and all of a sudden can't get it up. When those guys tell you "this has never happened to me before, I swear!!", they're lying .