Here is my confession, what is yours?

I've been too nice, and suddenly its biting me in the ass. Wish people didn't enjoy Fucking with me.

 

I bring a little bag with my tooth paste, floss and tooth brush to work....
I can't stand feeling like my teeth are dirty or have food in them.

....you have a very nice smile btw.

 

I hear you! Me too. Sometimes the world is a difficult place to be nice in, because other people are either selfish assholes, or they expect you to be and take what you say and do in that asshole context.

 

For sure this is one for me - whether it's a confession or not, using sex to get my way is something I've done for a long time now.

 

I dislike it when women think it acceptable to do this. I don't think it morally right nor do I think it is an aspect of a positive relationship.

 

I'm not in a relationship, sooooo I don't see it as harmful. I get what I want, they get something they want - seems like good business to me.

 

Well at a micro level like that I guess it's ok, but the overall message it sends out is a bad one at a macro level culturally I think. That kind of set up is for adults only imho.

 

I'm gaining weight because I feel more attractive heavier. My boyfriend seems to agree!

 

or at least he's smart enough not to say otherwise.

 

Speaking of weight....I have a friend who is very plus size, probably around a 2 or 3x....she has a pretty face but the weight masks much of her features --- yet every where we go she tells me how guys have hit on her or something -- like tonight she started a new job and a guy she worked with kept telling her she's fucking hot ---- and I'm like...what the fuck because people tell me I'm gorgeous or pretty, I know I'm attractive -- (but I have low self esteem on the inside, shhh don't tell anyone)I have a pretty face, nice hair and a curvy hour glass figure and I dress nice --- and while all these guys are hitting on her -- no one is lined up to hit on me!
Maybe I don't expose myself enough to guys...but I don't understand it. I thought guys wanted a perfect figure and a perfect face. Perfect every thing.
I'm so down on myself about what I think is every little imperfection...and my extra plus size friend is pulling guys left and right.

 

Or maybe she is lying..

 

I wondered that too, but that would be crazy. We don't have catty jealousy between us at all.

 

Come over Quiet Storm----I'll hit on you to your hearts content.

P.S: She may not be lying because of jealousy or trying to one up you---she may be telling lies as a defense for her own insecurities and self esteem. She is trying to make you think that she is always being hit upon to make up for her inner feelings that guys may not find her attractive because she is fat. That is actually a fairly common dynamic.

But yeah----hourglass figure, pretty face-----Mmmmmmmmmmm... (And I don't care at all about imperfections).

 

You do realize that good oral hygiene turns me on, don't you? Shame on you, Quiet - and after all my hard work to stop lusting

And thanks for the compliment...I didn't think you'd remember my smile

 

Maybe you are to pretty? A lot of guys won't go after a real pretty girl because they think they don't have a chance and don't want to be shot down.

 

Some guys just like bigger girls, much like some prefer blondes or petites or whatnot. Confidence seems to be the biggest attraction to me.

 

This too!

 

Thanks guys for all the replies. I don't know if she is lying or not, but I'm going to keep an eye out for what is really going on.

And it could be that she ran into guys that like a big girl.



QUOTE=youngnpassion;7582307]You do realize that good oral hygiene turns me on, don't you? Shame on you, Quiet - and after all my hard work to stop lusting

And thanks for the compliment...I didn't think you'd remember my smile [/QUOTE]

As for you... tell me how my clean mouth can get so dirty
...I don't know, I like toying with you for some reason.
and yes, I remember your smile, it was one of the things that stuck out
to me most in your pictures. You have a very nice handsome smile.

 

[/QUOTE]

As for you... tell me how my clean mouth can get so dirty
...I don't know, I like toying with you for some reason.
and yes, I remember your smile, it was one of the things that stuck out
to me most in your pictures. You have a very nice handsome smile.[/QUOTE]

You do like to toying with me, don't you! I always had the notion that was true.

And I've thought wayyy too much about how I can corrupt that gorgeous mouth of yours And I don't think I can say publicly what stuck out to me the most about your pictures...but I'm not going to forget it anytime soon...

...and when do I get to see your smile?

 

As for you... tell me how my clean mouth can get so dirty
...I don't know, I like toying with you for some reason.
and yes, I remember your smile, it was one of the things that stuck out
to me most in your pictures. You have a very nice handsome smile.[/QUOTE]

You do like to toying with me, don't you! I always had the notion that was true.

And I've thought wayyy too much about how I can corrupt that gorgeous mouth of yours And I don't think I can say publicly what stuck out to me the most about your pictures...but I'm not going to forget it anytime soon...

...and when do I get to see your smile?[/QUOTE]

I'm a very oral person...I can do enough corrupting on my own

I never smile much, when I was younger I got called smiley because ....
I never smiled