my sex drive is much stronger than my boyfriend's - help!

I wonder if you can help me with some advice.
I am very much in love with my boyfriend and we get along well. I am just somewhat worried about our sex life. It might sound strange but my sex drive is so much stronger than his (actually I think his drive is worryingly weak, much weaker than any other guy I have been with so far).
I love sex and would like to be much more active, but for him it seems to be something totally secondary. When we do it he lasts only a few minutes (so just until I start enjoying it) and can't be asked to do it a second time. This is becoming really frustrating for me.
Besides sex, he is an absolutely lovely boyfriend, affectionate and caring. I would not want to break up with him just because of sex.
I haven't told him about my frustration and I am afraid of doing so - he might feel offended or hurt, or he might think I am a sexual maniac...
Has anyone ever had similar experiences? Am I with an abnormal guy or am I just being egoistic?

 

I too also have a high sex drive and instigate sex more than my bf.. my bf doesnt last long either but luckily he will go a 2nd time. If it's really frustrating you it probably would be good to ask him about it. He may want to be more active with you but is worried/concerned about something which is putting him off?

 

Neither. You're just being with a guy who's got a lower libido than yours.

 

But what can possibly put him off???

 

How old is he?

Also, you'd better learn to communicate with each other. Do you really think you're going to be able to fix the issue without talking to him??

 

Do you have Skype?

 

From what you've said, it seems to have nothing to do with you.

 

I didnt mean with you, I meant like maybe he worries because he finishes early that he's not satisfying you and it knocks his confidence? Just an idea,

 

are you fat?

 

I am not fat, just a little bit curvy. And he always emphasizes how much he likes curvy woman, so it can't be that He is 35, that's 8 years more than myself.

 

How good is your relationship really if you can't even talk about your sex life with him? It is not going to get solved talking about it on a forum of strangers!

 

Sometimes guys just get tired of the same thing all the time.

It's like owning a movie on DVD, when it's there right in front you, sometimes you just don't feel like putting it in.

 

my wife is beyond curvy, she is fat. she is the only woman I have had sex with in 17 years. I am 50 years old.

when I lay next to her I get hard immediately. When she takes her clothes off I get hard. at least 5 nights a week I stick my dick in her. The feelings I get while fucking her are incredible and much stronger than ever before. I love to fuck my wife and she loves it when I fuck her.

sexual desire has nothing to do with the man's age, the woman's body or how long they have been having sex.

 

if i've learned one thing from this forum, it's that every guy who doesn't like to have sex has a girlfriend with a very high sex drive.

i need to start pretending to hate sex.

 

He might have low testosterone or something. Not to try to put a medical reason on his mental state.... no, that's what I'm doing. But then again, it might be totally normal, and just how he is.

By the way, curvy is a nice way of saying "sort of fat". If he's into that, it's cool.....

 

It's just a fact of life that some people have higher sex drives than others... You really need to talk it over with him, see if anything's troubling him. May even be a medical issue affecting his testosterone levels.