Sorry if this has already been covered a million times. My wife and me have been trying to do this, but she doesn't seem to be able to find the spot. She has tiny hands and short fingers, so I am assuming that that could be the problem. Any tips would be much appreaciated.
It could be the problem. Have you ever felt for it yourself? I am assuming you haven't. Find it yourself and then try to show her where it is at. I know some Doctors want you to have your knees pulled to you chest some what or in the fetal position. This might make it easier for her to find. Have fun, be happy that she is a willing participant.
Thanks for that. You are quite right in your assumtion that I haven't tried to find it myself. She is more than willing, so I am very lucky. Cheers.
It will help if you find it first and then you can direct her. Enjoy the search and the eventual massage.
try yourself to find 'the spot' and then explain to her. and to find yourself, relax, use lubricant and fingers. No way that you miss 'the spot'. It is amazing, just with touching prostate I can cum within 15 seconds, but it took some time until found for first time where and what to do.
You've probably already experienced at some time or another that while masturbating with one hand, you can get additional orgasmic sensations by simultaneously massaging the perineum (the extending underside of the penile shaft as it continues towards the region of the anus). The point at which you get most pleasure is where the prostate gland is to be found from within the anus, on the other side of the muscular cell membranes.
Not this weekend unfortunately. We had loads on and didn't get around to it (pardon the pun) It is planned for one evening this week, so I will keep you posted.
I have an aneros and they are amazing.May move onto the vibrating one.Hit the spot and it is mind blowing.
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I so want to prostrate massage my husband. I did look at the aneros prostrate massager at one stage, but it is something you leave in and let him chill out to. Also it is a bit difficult getting him to use a "toy" in his arse. He will take my finger if he is really turned on, but so far I have failed to find it. We have only introduced toys a few weeks ago, I have a vibrator and the Lelo magic wand with a couple of attachments, one a Gspot attachment, so I guess it's just waiting until he is ready. He will however, use toys on me, and enjoys that, but isn't so keen of having a toy in his rear, and I won't push him to do what he does not want.
Good news...We finally got this sorted. My wife found the magic spot with her fingers and it felat amazing. I don't think I have ever cum so much in my life.
It is a whole different feeling for sure. I shot a huge load the first time I had it done, I was getting head and when I got close she stopped giving me head and just massaged my prostrate it just kept shooting come.
This is good info! I'm looking forward to trying it out with the next willing stranger. My husband isn't interested, but he told me this morning that if I get it right with another man, he might wanna try it someday.
I finally got my hubby to try this, and couldnt find it! Hes kinda a large guy, Im a small girl maybe my fingers were too small? How can I get him to try again?