Finding people for threesomes

Hi,
My boyfriend and I want to try threesomes, but I have no idea how to find hot people to have sex with us.
Especially a girl. I suppose it's a lot easier to find a guy.
So how do you do it?

 

Depends on where you are and what options you might have there! You could always check out swinging clubs if you have them near. Also adult dating sites. Then there is the Craigslist route that has a bad reputation, but has works for us in the past with a lot of weeding through the bullshit.

Regardless of what route you go finding other single woman to join you is no easy task! Everyone is looking for them and they have a whole lot to choose from so if you two are not super models it will take a lot of time to find one.

Easy to find guys that want in, but not so easy finding one that is not a piece of shit.

 

Ebay

 

yeah, it's hard enough finding a girl for a twosome.

 

We have found a swinging club that we want to try soon.
Sites just seem to mechanical for me. I want a passionate night. Kind of like randomly meeting a hot girl and really hitting it off haha. But I know the chances of that happening are pretty slim.

We are both hot (yay haha) but yeah, it's still hard to find a girl.

Thanks for the reply! We'll try the swinging club

 

Internet dating sites

 

hahaa, your comments always make me laugh!

 

Try Adult Friend Finder, or even OKCupid. People tend to be pretty honest about what they want, particularly on AFF.

But often, you wind up meeting such people by chance. Get involved in your local swing community, and just generally meet people. You'll make some good friends, and from those friends, more friends. It's really all about connections.

Particularly for the MFF- women can afford to be picky, and they are aware of potential dangers in meeting strangers for sex. They most often chose people they know, or will be more likely to trust someone who has been introduced to them by someone they trust.

Get out there and network! LOL

 

Thanks, I'll try that

 

I would start from classifieds

 

Internet dating sites are not for random hook ups, they are for girls and guys looking for relationships. I think it's terrible to go on an internet dating site just looking for some ass.

 

Actually. It's funny that I met my current girlfriend via an internet dating site looking for a piece of ass. She was just looking for a piece of ass too. I've also had fuck buddies who I met on dating sites just looking for a piece of ass.

It's only bad if you aren't up front about it. The thing is that everybody in these situations were up front about it. The funny thing about it is that on my first date with my girlfriend I just told her straight up I wasn't looking for a relationship I was just looking to be a man slut. She was cool with that. She was even cool with me getting a text from my fuck buddy the next morning while I was still at her place.

Alas man makes plans and the great spirit laughs. Almost a year later I'm still with my girlfriend exclusively. I had my fun and (almost) recovered from a six year abusive relationship. I'm actually happy for once.

C/S,
Rev J

 

I have profiles on AdultFriendFinder.com & SilverDaddies.com, both of which state my intentions very clearly that I am only interested in One-Off, NSA contacts. So far this has been a perfectly satisfactory arrangement, with full discretion both ways. A perfectly amicable agreement. No-one is having the wool pulled over their eyes, making out that they're looking for a relationship. It's honest, outright sex from the start.

 

What happens when the dude really digs the cute new chick, and is sneaking around sticking a load in her every five minutes...

 

Hotel swimming pools and spa baths.

 

Really? I must be staying at the wrong hotels.

 

Works for me all the time. It's where people congregate, a lot of the times people are drunk and ready for fun.

 

Oh! You are in Germany! Makes sense.

 

I've met several couples through Craigslist. It take some effort to weed out the idiots and the pretenders, but I've met some really cool and playful couples on the casual encounters section of CL. Post an ad and insist on voice verifying and/or skyping with anyone who responds seriously to ensure you weed out the morons, but every couple I've played with says it works for them otherwise.

 

That's interesting, and great to hear, because I've been perusing the craigslist "random enounters" for the first time in my life, and wondering if there were any real people on there...if you think of any more tips, let me know!