How do I go about finding a nice person? I would prefer not to choose from my friends who are girls because it wouldn't be fair to them as they already see me as a friend.
Why wouldn't it be fair to them? Do you see casual girlfriends as hos? Watch Johnny Soporno's seminars on worthplayboy.com. He's the number one pick up artist of all time. It's all about being the guy who doesn't support the double standard and won't ruin a girl's reputation or rob her of her joy just because she agrees to fuck you.
Pick up artists are shameful morons who inspire young men to say the right thing at the wrong time, to the wrong person. They are taking the fun out of the sport! Now when I hit on a girl.. they probably presume that any technique I use I've seen in some pick up video
Interesting. Now we have a PUA with a open relationships spin...I don't really know what qualifies him as the greatest of all time. Never heard of him and I've actually studied some PUA lit, but who cares. https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=YGvsC11fbIo#!
Sometimes friends are the best candidates. My longest running fuck buddy (8 years plus) is also my closest friend, and I have several other friends both male and female who are usually good for some casual sex. It all depends on the personalities and emotions of those involved, sometimes it works, a lot of times it gets messy. All you can do is give it a try, whether you go for a friend or a stranger, just make you intentions clear and be prepared to handle whatever consequences may come. If you think it will jeopardize a friendship, it probably will; just go with your gut feelings about it. Beyond that, just play the field a little, you cant find a girl to fuck unless you are trying to fuck her
Picking up women is a sport?? Or they reject you because of your antedeluvian attitudes to virginity and sexual experimentation
I would traditionally agree with this in the past...but to give you a bit of background, I'm a decent guy (highly educated, attractive) who's been caught up in studying and working hard for a long time. I haven't had sex in years and I really do miss that physical contact with a woman. Obviously I'd prefer a relationship, but that is something that I want to carry out patiently over time. As for now, I just want to have a good time physically and not hurt anybody emotionally. Was just wondering if people had found success with something...
well that's easy. getting them to have a casual sex relationship with you is much more difficult. nah, women did that by making it into a sport in the first place.