Anal Sex with Multiple Partners Health Q

There's no issue with any of them IMO.

^^^ Exactly. Ass to mouth and ass to vag are things people do all the time with no incident. And about the UTI worries. Honestly, a girl can get a UTI from a plethora of minute things, some not even a result of sexual activity.

She was. I'm not sure how I would've handled that situation in the moment. But I'd certainly be making sure she was down for completely open swapping without concern before I let her return.

 

She could also get killed from a plethora of things. That doesn't mean you should point a gun at her and pull the trigger. Not that I'm arguing you should change a condom, just pointing out the defective logic you're using there.

 

Conceivably, thrush.

 

Yeah, I guess no one should have unprotected sex either because you can die from that too .

Seriously, what is your problem? And who is your alter? You come off like a troll to me. When I need your assistance in pointing out something in one of my posts, I'll let you know. Until then, you can fuck off.

I'm speaking from the personal experience of myself and others. No one ever said there were no risks of catching things from various forms of sexual activity. And for you to imply that I suggested such a thing only serves to show your ignorance.

 

In my personal experience if two chicks are laying there wanting to be bare backed in this day and age you are playing Russian Roulette with a double barreled shotgun. Or it is total BS.

 

Maybe you're not quite sure how this forum thing works. See, when you post something on one of these things, other people get to read what you say and reply to it if they're so moved. That's what a forum is. So if I feel the urge to respond to something you say, I'll do so without seeking an approval from you first. Now, if you don't like that, I'm afraid that's just too fucking bad.

 

If you want to make an ass out of yourself by trying, then be my guest. I've embarrassed many a morons on this board.

Now there was another trollish Blondgirl on the forum that just so happened to "disappear" as you magically appeared. Interesting coincidence that is.... :beatnik:

 

Trying to what? Respond to you? Looks like I'm doing it.

Yeah, I've noticed you seem to think pretty highly of yourself.

And if it makes you feel better to think I'm the person you're referring to, be my guest.

 

Is the inrenet ninjitsu really called for????????? We are all here for the same reason so lets keep it sweet PLEASE!!!!!!!!

 

Hey guys, thanks for the responses. Didn't mean for the disagreements to erupt though.

I think personally, I side in the middle here, I am not someone who is like ehh you can die walking across the street so go ahead and have unsafe sex, risky acts, with anyone you meet. But I feel I take a more cautious, bend but dont break approach, where I do have a lot of unprotected sex and things considered riskier, but I am confortable with what I am doing and with whom I am doing it, and hope that my partners are too. I guess that is why I started this thread, just wanting to know if I was out of whack here, thinking this going from one ass to another was no big deal, or if she was, thinking it was a big deal, given she was fine with everything up to that point.

 

Not too bright are you for something that basic to go over your head.

When dealing with someone way below your level of intelligence, it's hard not to notice such a disparity.

I agree. I have no idea why Blondie felt she needed to give a condescending opinion on my post. But as long as she thinks she's going to try it, I'm going to put her ass in check.

 

So as an update, us 3 were able to get together again yesterday, and it was a pretty good experience, although we still weren't able to get her to change her stance on the going from ass to ass thing. My remedy was to try anal first with her, then my gf second, but no switching back which seemed to be a pretty good compromise, even if it did take some of the spontaneity out of it. Still don't see what the big deal is, especially since she was perfectly fine with rimming, and even did it for a few seconds after the creampie, so its not like she is totally anti-that area in general at all...just seems inconsistent to me. Overall fun time though, even with the quirky "safe sex" request.

 

Sounds like it's time to find someone a little less "anal" .

 

who?

 

There are girls out there who aren't uptight about swapping ass to ass and other combinations... just got to get out there and look for them.

 

Haha yeah, well I think the whole reason for the post, and my whole confusion is that her views are inconsistent, and this is just something nitpicky given that she's fine with all of the rest of it. If this was someone who didn't do anal without a condom, didn't rim without a dental dam...etc etc etc., then it would sense, but given her comfort level with everything else, I just thought that this was a quirky thing to be anal about (pun intended).

 

^^^ I agree. I also think such a hangup is worthy of finding a replacement for group anal activities. Let her stick around for the solo stuff. :2thumbsup:

 

Well, she is someone who has been a friend and hookupbuddy of my gf for over a year, but has just recently agreed to join us (sat was our 2nd time). Its still a great time, and you have to respect people's wishes, even if you do find them a bit quirky.

 

Well, maybe she'll loosen up in time.

 

let me save every1 some trouble anal sex with multiple partners = aids. plain and simple. has this generation not learned anything?