Virgin Boyfriend Scared of Intercourse

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he's what, 25? and he hasn't had sex and doesn't want to? i dunno, i see no reason to believe he will ever do it with you, or anyone else.

 

You might get him to play with you , tell him you need him to get you off , clit , breasts , ect. If he wont do that he may be gay , or have other problems . desert rat

 

A little less suttle , give him a b.j. , if he dont like that he is gay . desert rat

 

To Blue moon 878 start sex play , keep it going , show him what to do , dont let him alone untill you get what you want . desert rat

 

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You could watch some porn . I think he would get the idea . desert rat

 

Tell him that it's important to you and talk to him about it.

 

If I were in the "69 " position with a woman ( oral , oral ) I would not stop or worry about her breaking up with me . It would be sex all night . desert rat

 

I'm guessing that he's reluctant because losing his virginity is a big deal to him, and he wants to make sure that he does it with the right person. You breaking down and leaving him before could make him worry that you'll do the same again. So he wants to make sure that you're more stable mentally now. Basically, he wants to make sure that you're in a place where you're ready to make a real comitment.

In general, as long as you're satisfied sexually, I don't see any reason to press your partner to do anything that he isn't comfortable with. You are satisfied, right, with the oral? I went through a number of years when I refrained from intercourse, and that was some of the best sex of my life!

I'd just let him know that you're ready when he is, and you're there to talk about any questions or concerns he might have. And then let it drop for a while. I wouldn't pressure him. Sounds like he's comfortable enough to let you know what he needs, so just relax and go with it. He says he needs time, give him time.

 

you could tie him down and "rape" him. Maybe you'll uncover that he likes it that way -- and you may like it yourself (especially if you've been raped yourself and have that in your psyche). Maybe some bondage and roll reversal could turn into something really fantastic. Tie him down and give him a bj then try to fuck him.

When I lost my virginity I was really nervous and I would get really hard during foreplay, then when I was about to stick it in I would get super nervous and lose my wood. I found that I needed to concentrate on something other than my nervousness (like a good song -- everyone remembers the song they lost their virginity to and that's for a reason) so at one point my gf put on this song and strapped me down and did a striptease and then fucked me. I was certainly happy. And the experience made it so I couldn't even think about how nervous I was...

 

I guess it comes down to the point where you tell him to have sex with you or you will find some one else . If he just does not want to have sex for what ever reason there is no point in forcing him . desert rat

 

don't rape him, because, you know... rape is bad.

would you be giving the same advice if this was a guy posting that his virgin girlfriend was hesitant to have sex with him? i really doubt that you'd be recommending rape.

 

Suck him untill he is hard climb on insert penis in vagina and ride him hard!

 

Never more in my life I'll wanna have anything to do with a man who isn't "ready" sexually. You'll be forever waiting for this man to resolve his sexuality and one day you'll perhaps find out his sexuality doesn't include your pleasure.

If you can see yourself living without sex, OK, but if your libido isn't null, be careful.

 

Who are you people talking to?

 

I'm just saying what my girlfriend did to me when I was a virgin...

 

Tebow's girlfriend

 

lmao. Just fuck the dude and get it over with. He will either like it and bang you back or hate it and turn gay. Now don't do anything I say. lol