Did you ever feel desperate for sex?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Just_a_woman, Mar 12, 2013.

  1. Just_a_woman

    Just_a_woman Member

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    Funny thing. When I was single, I could have all the sex in the world. It was fun.

    Now I'm married, and have been since 1996, I have to settle for masturbation, or just silent desire, or boring, often orgasm-less sex.

    Right now, I'd kill for sex. Figuratively, of course.

    Am I the only one?

    I'm sitting here, behind this computer, and even as I write this, half my mind is wildly fantasizing about the sex I won't get tonight. :(
     
  2. Sig

    Sig Senior Member

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    I certainly have. Long deployments were the fucking worst.
     
  3. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    did i ever not feel desperate for sex?
     
  4. eggsprog

    eggsprog anti gang marriage HipForums Supporter

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    i seem to remember a time like that, but it is a distant, foggy memory.
     
  5. JassieLeigh

    JassieLeigh Member

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    I do.
    if i've gone three days without sex.
     
  6. enhancer13

    enhancer13 Senior Member

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    Yes when I was married to my ex for 16 years! Luckily that ended a few years back and now I am getting more then I ever could have imagined from my new lady.
     
  7. Lady-Lover

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    Same story here. My ex was a nightmare. My new wife is trying to fuck me to death. It is terrible!!!!! :)
     
  8. Just_a_woman

    Just_a_woman Member

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    I would prefer quality, too, for sure!
     
  9. endnow

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    I'll a another question, do you guys think cheating is ok or still not ok in the above situation? I think it's a bit unfair to be with someone, prevent them from having sex with other people and not give them any sex yourself too. So I'm not saying therefor cheating is ok but I am saying that it turns the issue a bit more grey for me.
     
  10. enhancer13

    enhancer13 Senior Member

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    Cheers buddy! It is a great thing to be able to have another chance with a really great girl. I know from other threads your new lady is also a squirter so to cheers to that as well.
     
  11. enhancer13

    enhancer13 Senior Member

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    Myself no I don't think cheating is okay under any circumstance! It is not something I would do to anyone ever even if they were shitty to me. If I had that little respect for someone I would no longer be with them.

    I was in a pretty much loveless marriage for 16 years with a person that had no sex drive and did not believe sex was an importent part of a healthy relationship. I had many chances to pursue sex with others and I never once betrayed her.

    I am getting my due now in life and I would like to believe alot of why I have this wonderfull person in my life now has to due with the fact that I am the loyal, honest and trustworthy person I am.
     
  12. Mike Suicide

    Mike Suicide Sweet and Tender Hooligan

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    Does you husband feel the same way? Or is he getting amazing sex regularly.
     
  13. Just_a_woman

    Just_a_woman Member

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    If you're asking me, yes, he gets great sex. In the sense that I do all he wants.

    Heaven to him is to have his cock sucked. I suck his cock, lick it, suck his balls just the way he likes it, fuck his cock with my mouth. He can cum in my mouth whenever he wants without having to ask for it. He can do with me as he pleases.

    He can have it any time of the day or night he wants. When I do anything sexual for him, I do it with enthusiasm because I love him, because I enjoy sucking his cock and being fucked by him, and because I wanna please him in any way I can.

    I never deny him what he wants. And if I'm not enough, he's also free to fuck any woman he chooses, with my presence or not. He can tell me about it, or not, whatever he wants.

    He can fuck my pussy and ass whenever he wants, in any position he wants. I don't complain, even when it hurts. The maximum I do is to ask him to take it a bit slowly till I get wet, if I'm not already, and I only do it, because it hurts a lot to have anal without proper lubrication.

    He says he's very happy with his sexual life.
     
  14. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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    When I was single I'd go through desperate times. I'm sure women could smell it on me and run the other way. But I was fortunate to find a woman to fall in love with and is as horny as I am. :)
     
  15. odonII

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    Given you have been married since 1996 - has it always been the case he has been so selfish in the bedroom department? Why are you allowing him to do what ever he pleases with out thinking of your needs/wants? You are getting sex, just not the sex you want - which is who's fault?
     
  16. Just_a_woman

    Just_a_woman Member

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    I could leave this minute, if I decided to, so, it is my fault, my responsibility. It has also been established that I'm getting what I deserve. After all, I love him. He didn't force me to love him.

    Before marriage and right at the beginning of it, he'd give me oral sex, or finger me to orgasm. Then, he stopped doing these things. We talked and he told me he didn't like doing it.

    I don't think one should be forced into doing anything one doesn't wanna do, therefore I respect his limits. Again, it is my way of thinking and it is my fault if I think like this. But even though it is my fault to be like this, I still miss orgasms given to me by the man I love.
     
  17. Just_a_woman

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    He doesn't ask, but I've told him in the past. I just don't keep repeating it, because that affects his self-esteem, plus it has the potential to make him unhappy and create conflict.
     
  18. odonII

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    Just_a_woman

    I'd get out while you are a relatively young woman. Children might complicate matters, though.
    Although, you do say: I enjoy sucking his cock and being fucked by him.
    So you do enjoy it or not?
    What's the actual problem?
     
  19. Inca

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    I thought you said previously you fucked strangers, and your husband gives you consent to do so???? :leaving:
     
  20. Hedgeclipper

    Hedgeclipper Qiluprneeels Nixw

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    I feel pretty desperate for secks right now. but then again, I am a male who's not quite 20
     
  21. endnow

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    I've gotten desperate for sex to a fault before, I've had a few issues with that in the past actually 100% in my own head of coarse. But now that I live with my gf that desperation doesn't come up as much and if I was to be single again I doubt I'd get 'desperate' again.
     

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