I need a guy's advice

Ok so I need the some advice from a guy on what I should do .... My boyfriend is deployed right now ... I went out 2 weeks ago and got totally drunk at a club ...my boyfriend goes there all the time ... I meant this really cute guy and he got me drunk ...we ended up going back to his place ... Where there was a party at the apartment with his roommates and guy friends . I was so drunk i wasn't thinking clearly ..they somehow got me to agree to blow all of them after I lost a bet at a lame game ....I just wasn't my normal self .. I really regret getting so drunk .... it could cost me my relationship ...All those guys go to the that same club ... What do I do ... I can't tell him but if he goes there I don't want these guys to say anything !!! Should I just tell him and deal with whatever he does ... ... I mean I need ideas .. Help !!!

 

dont ask, dont tell.

 

Tell him and deal with whatever he does. Explain the whole situation.

Not to be rude, but this is not to be blamed on alcohol.

You have 2 choices:
1. He finds out you did it
2. He finds out you did it and you've been hiding it from him

Good luck.

 

thats fucked up. that the crap that happens in the pornos- if i was your bf and foun f that out id drop u like a bad habbit and find some1 better

 

The relationship is curtains, baby. Alcohol is just the excuse people give themselves to act like assholes.

 

I would not tell him while he is deployed. The main motive of immediately telling his is solely for YOUR benefit, to alleviate YOUR guilt, not for your boyfriends benefit. I would immediately tell him in person on his return that you have been unfaithful.

 

This.

If those guys try to tell him, just say they are full of it and making it up.

Kimds of soumds too unlikely to be believable anyway. If if was just one hookup with one guy he might believe it
But blowing a bunch of guys will just end up sounding like a Dear Playboy fanatasy

 

true dat. love = no cheating. i was drunk honey and fucked 10 guys but i still love you. lol when it comes down to it - if you love some1 u dont cheat on them especially with a blowbang. he deserves better t

 

Wow, the 'I didn't know what I was doing because I sooooo drunk' excuse is still being used. Seriously, HE did not get you drunk, YOU got YOU drunk by putting yourself in the situation.

So, now you've sucked dick like a porn star, but don't want your boyfriend to find out? I would bet that he wouldn't buy the 'I was so drunk' excuse, because it is often a lie for someone not taking responsibility for their own actions and wanting to get away with it.

Good luck, and if you can't handle drinking without becoming a party favor...don't drink.

Btw, yes I have been drunk and done stupid shit. However, I never blamed the booze or the person I was drinking with. I was the one who drank too much. People need to stop blaming shit for the crappy behavior, and own what they do.

 

tough situation....hope no one filmed it

 

Do your boyfriend a favor and break up with him.

 

This.

You can guarantee that your fella WILL find out (men like to brag.)

You must be honest with him when you see him.

 

Indeed.

English a second language for you, is it?

 

Was thinking the same thing. Stale copypasta is stale.

 

more like a 4th

 

I had a girlfriend cheat on me a literally 3 days after I went to work in Alaska Dow 3 months. Fuckin bitch didn't tell me tell after I got home. Fuckin bitch just kept telling me on the phone how much she loved me. Fuckin bitch, fuck here.

Wait, what did you want to know.....

 

god, this forum really is trollable. fakest damn post i've read in weeks and one or two people out of ten even question it.

 

If I saw the video evidence, then I'd actually believe it happened

 

This MIGHT not be a troll - as we've discussed in chat, if you google the username Jenny1994, you find profiles from vietnam. She said her boyfriend was on deployment, which I assume means he's serving his 2 year mandatory military service which Vietnam has.

It's probably a troll though

 

Its on the internet though, so it must be true.

That and the truth, the - I'd be too scared to do anything like blow ten guys at once I just fantasized about it and I wonder how my boyfriend would react, would he even care post, is like yawn