Sucking hard or gentle

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by Lvnfemale, Mar 22, 2013.

  1. Lvnfemale

    Lvnfemale Member

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    With all the sucking caressing licking etc. I do, I find that I get off more by sucking my husband dick real hard. And playing with his balls. But I don't think he likes it. I love the penis i can have it in my mouth all day but I do it,more for me because it turns me on . So my question is should I pay attention to what my husband wants soft ,gentle,ball sucking ,tongue massaging (mmmm I want some now)or what I want hard sucking till all my desert is squeezed out. Or should I not give a SHET and suck dry LOL
     
  2. enhancer13

    enhancer13 Senior Member

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    Do some of both and make you both happy!
     
  3. TAZER-69

    TAZER-69 Listen To Your Heart! Lifetime Supporter

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    How about doing all of the above, just mix them all together.
     
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    I like some teeth please.. and some hard hard sucking.
     
  5. wowzer

    wowzer Member

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    im a hard sucker lol
     
  6. Just_a_woman

    Just_a_woman Member

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    My husband prefers receiving oral than intercourse. So, I'm often sucking his cock. I love sucking him and I look forward to it. But it is still for him. So, I do exactly what he likes, the way he likes. I'm gentle with his balls. I caress his scrotum with my fingertips while licking and gently sucking them. I don't let saliva accumulate, because he finds it disgusting. I lick the length of his cock, from balls till glans, spending time on his frenulum, which is very sensitive. Then I fuck him with my mouth, deepthroating now and then, just like he loves it. While sucking, my tongue never stops massaging his cock, because he loves it. He likes it slow, so, slow I go.

    I'll edge him, stopping short of an orgasm to delay release, because he loves when it takes very long, he can enjoy it for a long time. When he wants to cum, I'll accelerate the fucking with the mouth suction, all the while massaging his frenulum with my tongue, till he cums. Sometimes he'll cum in my mouth and I'll try to swallow it all. Sometimes he pulls it out right before climax and these times I know what he wants is my tongue flat on his frenulum, licking like a cat.

    Other things he likes are soft suction of his glans, and my tongue touring his cock, all the way from glans, through shaft, to scrotum, going all around his cock. When I'm playing with his scrotum, he likes it when I take parts of it between my lips and massage it, as if I was delicately pinching. He also likes circling of his glans, but he likes it less.

    So, I've perfected the technique to please him, to make every minute special to him. And he loves it. He says there is nothing better in life than having his cock sucked by me.

    When he's watching porn, he calls me to crawl under the table and suck him while he watches. These times, I know he wants to have it last for over an hour. To avoid getting pain in my jaw, I alternate between sucking and just licking. If he's laying down in bed and watching porn from there, then I position myself so that he can see my ass pointing up. He slaps it sometimes. If he's watching bj scenes, I try to match what I do to what is been done on the video. He goes crazy with pleasure and moves his hips upwards. Then I know he wants me to deepthroat him and I do it till he climaxes.

    He's really into receiving bjs and delivering them to him just the way he likes it gives me great pleasure. My pussy gets so needy, so hot... I can feel my juices running down my thighs, my clit swollen, begging for release.

    After he's done, when he goes to the bathroom, I masturbate to give myself some release. I wait till he's gone do something somewhere else, because he finds it awkward when I masturbate. He thinks maturbation should only be done in private.
     
  7. BuryMeInSmoke

    BuryMeInSmoke Member

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    Balance is the key to life. Either way, your husband is a lucky man.
     
  8. d10258

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    Well for me i like to do what she wants and likes so that she does get off so if thats cumming in her mouth then im all for doing it besides it feels awesome to jizz in a hot mouth while being sucked
     
  9. Lvnfemale

    Lvnfemale Member

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    This sounds exactly like my kind of work. I haven't tried the porn. But I'll try tonight. As for playing with myself, I don't really like to. When I'm sucking him and I get real wet I stop And jump on him and have him fuck me hard or ill fuck him until I cum and then ill jump off and finish my BJ.
    He loves it because I tease him so that he doesn't know what's coming next
     
  10. Halcyon-2012

    Halcyon-2012 Guest

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    Clearly, I've been right that anal sex is not just enjoyed by women in porn!!

    And I'm completely inboard with the prostrate massage! Have tried it myself.. By myself. And it was incredible! To have a woman do it while givin me head would be.. Well better :).

    Thanks for all the feedback!!
     
  11. Halcyon-2012

    Halcyon-2012 Guest

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    Obviously got my replies mixed up in my excitement!! But good stuff all around!
     
  12. youngnpassion

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    Wowww...it's wonderful that you're so sensitive towards your husbands needs...but I certainly hope you're getting a lot back. You seem like a really nice person and he should be getting you off plenty too - I felt bad reading that you have to masturbate in private....after all you do for him??
     
  13. PineMan

    PineMan Senior Member

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    Quite frankly, when it comes to Oral, suction doesn't really have anything to do with it, short of pulling the penis into the mouth, which can be done through thrusting by the man, or the woman moving her head back & forth. The main stimulant is the physical contact of the lips around the shaft & the tongue against the glans, simulating Vaginal penetration.
     
  14. calgirl

    calgirl Senior Member

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    Yeah, I felt a little sad about that too, except for the OP seem ok and happy, so I went with it.......
     
  15. DroopySnoopy

    DroopySnoopy The ORIGINAL Dr. Droop

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    Yeah, you need to be getting as much as you give. But as long as you are happy...
     
  16. Hatless Squirtgun

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    I say both. Personally I like a nice soft slow start then harder as I get harder. Do your thing but ask what he wants and take turns doing it to satisfy you both.
     

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