On Plenty of Fish I have seen some profiles where the woman's location is a shopping centre.I can see two possibilities: one it is a scam profile,two these are computer generated profiles to add bulk to search results, There would be nothing wrong in listing and the name of the shopping centre has they work in a particular shopping centre but I cannot imagine any genuine person listing a shopping centre for where they live.
As a general rule, if those women could get dates in the real world they would. There is a reason people use online dating. Too crazy/unattractive for anyone to deal with them.
I am finding this to be true. It seems the good looking ones all have multiple kids, very high expectations (so why are you on a dating site?), or just come across as total cunts in their profiles (90% of which read almost exactly the same), which, sadly, many American women are thanks to feminism and social engineering. Men aren't much better.
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Rudefinder once sent me a photo of a young Brigitte Bardot saying she wanted to meet me and all I had to do was to given them my credit card details. They must have thought I was really stupid or maybe it was just done by a computer program.
I know some friends that have reluctantly admitted using dating sites and they've all met real people.
the ones that haven't met real people are probably the ones that won't admit to having used the sites..
I can see a lady giving the city where she lives but not her address . Who knows who might come looking for her . She could agree to meet some one at that shoping center , or another public place .
On plenty of fish http://www.pof.com/ when I loged on I saw a bunch of lady pics. , all form southern AZ , Tucson , Oro Vally , ect. I guess they get an address from my i.s.p. address and go from there , or they take me about 100 mi. south .
I met my boyfriend on a dating site. I'm not bad looking and had plenty of dates in the 'real world' too. It's like the real world in that you are going to meet a lot of people who are stupid, annoying or just not that interesting. But you may also meet someone you really hit it off with. In short, I think online dating isn't nessercarily going to be 'easier' than any other form of dating. You take the same risks. Maybe you will meet someone maybe you won't. It's just about giving it a go.
This is really good advice. I met an ex gf online, it wasn't on any kind of dating site and I wasn't really looking, it just happened. You're going to meet all types online. Some will be fake some will be real, just like in the real world.
Um, the internet is part of the real world Just like this forum is, just like this post you are reading is, which is a reply to a real post that you made. You are buying into a stereotype that doesn't really get too far if you think about it. Actually what's crazy is that I often urge people who are stuck dating the people they happen to be friends-of-friends with, or people they happen to bump into at the bar, to spread their nets. JOIN a dating site, set up a good profile, you'd be shocked who's around you and very much like you, but that you wouldn't meet without the internet. When I met my girlfriend online, we learned that we both go to the same university, for the same program, want to work in the same field, work at the same company, and live on the same street about 5 minutes away from each other. We had never seen each other before in our lives, and possibly would not have met had we not made profiles on the internet you could say it was "meant to be" but I would say that all the advantages that you love the internet for when it comes to shopping (amazon) searching (google) and learning (wikipedia, khan academy, etc), all these advantages translate to dating as well. Why limit yourself to the people you physically bump into during your social meanderings? Why not make an intelligent search across the digital connections that more and more of humanity is sharing each day? This is the new wave of social interactions. All manner of social interactions are becoming more fluid and possibly thanks to the internet. Whether you are seeking religious guidance, wanting to score an exotic psychedelic, need medical advice, curious about purchasing a car, or want to learn a new language, the internet should be your first stop. Dating is no exception! You can use the new technology or you can fear and ridicule it. Me and my gf are soon going to join the ranks of those already MANY who have met on dating websites and gotten married and lived together happily. :sunny: If you don't look far and wide then you can only see what's in front of you
