I have been talking to this girl for the past 5 months. She told me she was bicurious when we met. The first 3 months were great. It seemed like she really wanted to be around me and talk to me and she would text me everyday, and we would have legit convo's and she would ask me to spend the night a lot blah blah. And we would hang out almost every saturday. The fourth month was alright. I bought her a present for her bday. Her ex contacted her again so she was dealing with that nonsense but I helped her get through it. I did A LOT for her around that time and i ended up being the one feeling like shit because she was in a bad ass mood the whole night and i was the one driving her back and forth. Now we are in January...and we barely talk or hang out. She moved closer to her best friends, so i am assuming that's part of the reason. They take her out drinking everywhere. I hinted that I wanted to spend the nigh a week ago...and she just kinda brushed it off and said she wouldn't be at her apt. I read on facebook a day ago that she went to a Brazilian wax salon (i would think the only reason a woman would go there is if they're getting laid later on but i didn't think much of it because that could just be ME.) then later that night, she apparently went o a sushi restaurant and was flirting with a cute waitress who gave her free food. I think she was on a date that night, and worse, with a guy and here is why...usually when she's out she makes it a point to tag her best friends. Also, whenever she wanted me to take HER on a date, she would always recommend the sushi bar. And none of her friends were at the sushi bar that night. But earlier that week, I dropped her off at her house after we saw a movie, and the first status she posted on facebook when I left was "You're not the only one trying to be the only one ; )" This whole thing makes me worried because when we first started talking she would tell me "I told my best friends that you were my future gf" and its like we're slowly falling off. I haven't texted her in 5 days. Because I'm the one lately initiating the convos...and i figured if she wanted to talk to me/see me, she would do so. She's a grown woman (she's 26 I'm 20). Its leaning to a week, and if she doesn't try to contact me by saturday...I feel like we're through...and she's not interested anymore. I know I shouldn't base things off facebook status', however...sometimes the proof is in the pudding, no?
5 months and you are not exclusive yet ...yeah if it's slowing down & you fear she is seeing some1 new or her ex then I would say you let things be too casual too long so she didn't take you so serious as interest so it will blow out unless you get on thee ball and haven't lost her already.
