Do you think it's rude when a guy pushes himself deep while giving him oral, or do you think it's hot?
Depends entirely on the moment, IMO. If I happen to be really into what I'm doing and he's doing it as a power/domination thing, then it's very hot. If he does it without giving me time to relax my throat, though (as an example), then it's rude.
Depends how much he is paying. Anything over $100 and he should have a fair bit of leeway in directing events.
I think a lot of guys get a thrill off the fact that if a girls deep throating, she has a choice.....to either swallow his jizz or choke to death.
I guess it depends on the moment. I didn't do that with my wife very often, but a few times she was really into it and had already worked her way down and loosened up, so I did it without even thinking, and she liked it. I could easily see a girl getting pissed though if it was unexpected or if she's not even all that into it to begin with.
For me as long as the girl is enjoying herself I'm happy.... but then again this questions wasn't directed to me calgirl... what about you?
In this case, I think the charm of this man makes it hot. He's so considerate in our interactions and during sex, that the contrast of him being dominant is a turn on. I could easily see I wouldn't feel the same with a man that is selfish, or ungracious.
I'm not going to grab her head right away and start ramming her forehead into my belly. But after she's been sucking awhile and I'm really turned on I will grab ahold and start fucking her face. The closer I get to coming she will take control and finish me off with more shallow then deep throat at the moment I cum
Like everyone has said...this is such an in-the-moment thing. I don't think I've ever done this to a girl when it wasn't appropriate. For instance, sometimes we're just being romantic, and I thrust gently and caress her hair and kiss her forehead. Other times we've practically jumped each other the moment we get in the room and I'm holding her head firmly and thrusting and I can tell that she's loving it, fingering herself, moaning, thrusting her ass out. I think if you're a bright guy and can read the signs and respect the moment, it's easy to distinguish when the mood is hot, and when you're just being disrespectful and force-feeding (literally) your girl.
Its not really an in the moment thing for me... I like it all the time... I mean I don't want to start a bj that way, like let me at least get your dick slippery, but after a little bit of the easy stuff, I like for a dude to fuck my face until he is ready to cum and then force his whole dick in my mouth and cum so it drips down my throat. Just thinking about it makes me wet.
No more rude then when my lady grabs my head and pushes my face between her legs and grinds it with her pussy untill she explodes! Either way it is hot to us.